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I tired of leaving my EX- WIFE and im trying to change... how can I show her?

It has been kicking my butt for the last year... That I was the one mostly to blame in my relationship with my ex wife. No cheating or lack of love... Just couldnt handel the pressure and would walk out and break up when things got rough. Its funny how MEN realize the problem when the damage has been done... BUT I WANT CHANGE ONCE AND FOR ALL! I have tried to move on but I still LOVE my Wife! She resentful and bitter against me... How can I show her that I am trying to change and not walk out on her again! I dont want to tell her because she will think its lip service what can i do to show her! LADIES!

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  • 9 years ago
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    Good for you for taking responsibility!! Once you've lost a person's trust, especially by hitting the road when things get tough, only one thing can EARN it back-time. I understand what you mean about "lip service" but you need to talk to her just long enough to say what you said here, that you mean it,want your marriage to work and you're changing and just ask her to watch you do it over time. It's my opinion the best way to get all that across without interruption would be with a card with enough room for you to write it all in there. If it was me and you also sent flowers I wouldn't throw them away. I know it's hard to wait but some things worth having take time. Best wishes.

  • 9 years ago

    It's too little too late.

    If you want to change - do it - for you. Stick to it and live it...

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