How do I get over this girl?

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A few weeks ago, I asked a girl in one of my classes to prom. She said she'd wanted to go with her friends, and turned me down. I was persistent and I asked her out on a date, and she finally came out and said she saw us just as friends.

I'm pretty devastated about this, I'm a senior with only a month of school left but I really want to have some sort of relationship with her, even as a friend, but I feel like I've messed everything up. I really want to get over this girl; I'm going into the U.S. military after HS and I don't want something like this weighing me down.

Thank you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think she made it very clear. You have to accept it. You didn't mess anything up. Relationships are selective, not based on whether you are a good person or not. She wasn't the one. But I found that when things like this happen, it is a precursor and a sign that the right one will show up soon.

? · Answer

You get some psychotherapy, and you find a subject area to put your attention on, e.g., a certain book or kind of movie. And, friggin let it go.  You haven't messed up, I assure you.  Like I was-just out of high school-you sound a bit immature, and too willing to let a woman twist you around her finger.  As they used to say, "Life is too short."  

And, on the subject of the military, I hope you have thought this through, and looked at all your options, because a lot of young people do not, and later regret their choices (or come back in a box).  Use your noggin on this one, Buddy.

Miguel · Answer

Dude get over this girl I been rejected before and I'm not telling you to enjoy rejection but Don't upset or down about a girl rejecting you thats life See rejection has no meaning unless you it a meaning and whenever a girl reject you never give her of power of feeling rejected

McClane · Answer

man then just dont worry about it, if she dont life u then she dont like u! hahaha u cant let her weigh u down. and if u really want a friendship with her then just ask her if she wants to hang out just as friends(and dont try anything stupid) hahaha. but if she dont want to hang out. then just leave her alone.
it just means your other half is some place else. :)

Anonymous · Answer

take it easy, just go with her to prom as a friend. dont mention the boyfriend thing for now. she might by flattered but act a little cool about it, like you dont care much--for your sake, and move on with your life. girls if they hang out with you a lot and you're a decent guy, they might reconsider. just be yourself. focus on yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, find someone else.

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