my 1yr olds not a great eater, how do i change that?

thats simple make the food fun.... you said he eats fruit no problem make thing in that shape. it might be a lil more time consuming but in the end he will slowly take to other foods. and for the milk part its ok if he doesnt like milk i was allergic as ababy so i had to do soy milk. but my oldest son was the same way and the shaped food really worked mine prefered eating dinosaurs tho =).... and i had to put a drop of strwberry or choclate syrup to all the milk. if that still doesnt work try baby snacks. hes a baby so as long as he starts drinking fine and snacking thru out the day he is fine. babies start exploring and dont have time to sit down 3 times a day and eat for 30 minutes because they night miss something. so having 6-8 lil meals is actually better for then especially since they burn it of so fast.

Your child will eat what he needs as long as you provide good nutritional food. Try him with cheese sticks, pieces of diced chicken, hard boiled egg cut into chunks, in other words good protein, you can probably find more ideas on the i/n. Don't encourage him to eat junk food - perhaps that is where the problem began? Also why give him spag. bol if he doesn't like anything messy?

he doesn't go down the shops and buy all the crap - your fault for giving it to him. To get out of this mess you might need some help. You give him small portions of a few good foods, if he refuses to eat it, just take it away without comment and go do something else. He only gets water on demand, plus some milk at the normal times. stop filling him up with milk, as well.

he's found a great way to get your attention so you need to stop making such a fuss, and do more interesting things with him.