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Okay, so there's this girl I like (I'm a girl too) but I don't know if she likes me...do I tell her?

I'm assuming she's straight...used to rejection by now lol! And the worst part about this situation is, there's this guy that likes me-at the same time I liker her! Oh boy it's awkward when he gets touchy feely with me. I've told him I don't like him that way but I don't think he gets it...has anyone else secretly liked someone else when someone you don't like likes you? Please comment!

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  • 9 years ago
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    Mmmm, that is a sticky situation. Maybe you should tell him that you like woman and tell him to back off. And instead of telling the girl you like that you like her, tell her that you admire her. :] so she doesn't get weirded out if she is straight. But you never know. :]

  • 9 years ago

    Had some that liked me and I had to say it up straight that it won't work, don't like you more than just a friend, etc. And as for me liking someone, I had no problems that way either...one can flirt or just be direct with words so as not to make a big delayed deal about it all. I am straight but have been accused of being gay since I rejected their moves. So, you cannot ever be guaranteed that your unwanted admirerer or your eye candy might not get all offended how ever way you approach it.

  • 9 years ago

    Well, I think you should do tell her, see what happens, she might say yes, there is no shame in trying in my opinion, as for this boy, I think it is best to tell him you don't like him that way, keep telling him until he gets it, he won't be able to do anything without repecussions, and sorry, I really don't know what that is like so I cannot offer you much firsthand experience.

    Source(s): Collected knowledge.
  • You seem to be leading this guy on....you need to tell him you are a lesbian.

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