GF hurt my feelings and I feel like I can't tell her?

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Lately she's been really stressing about things and I've been doing all that I can to relieve her stress.  I've been taking her kids places, making her dinner, giving her massages, making it a point to ask how her day is etc. Yesterday I finally got a new job that pays well so I was in a very good mood.  I was joking around with her kids and we were laughing and having a good time and she went to the bedroom and "hid" so to speak.  Later that night she said that sometimes I annoy her with my "immaturity" with the kids and that I unplug everything around the house and that men are so  much more simpler etc. etc.  (I'm a woman BTW)  Basically she was just b*tching about little things I do that bother her.  I just sat there and didn't really say anything and then she asked me why I treat her so good.  I'm very confused by this.  Is she taking things out on me or maybe she doesn't love me like she used to?  I am trying so hard to make her happy and she says I am  but it really doesn't show.  On the other hand she recently has surpised me with an edible arrangement and a really sweet card saying how much she loves me etc., but these  moments are fewer and fewer.  What do you think?  Oh and we have been together for little over a year.

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Talk to her, tell her what you're telling us. Tell her what bothers you and see what's bothering her. It's more than likely she's doubting herself. If you honestly and truly love her and want to stay with her, than tell her that. Give her some reassurance that you do love her and her kids and your lives together. If you've been having doubts about yourself or your relationship, talk them all out (send the kids to the babysitters or grandmas or something).

Anonymous · Answer

Hi there I wonder if you are the person to apologize. You had class and you forgot about it, it happens. I think that you're quite understanding towards her. Her reaction seems immature to me. Especially since she threatens to "punch you in the face". You are a novice to relationships so let me tell you now that if she gets this aggressive this early in the relationship about small stuff like this it's a very bad sign for the future. You are 22, you seem a very considerate guy and you deserve someone that treats you with more respect. From where i'm sitting , you deserve someone who treats you better. I wish i could say something more positive but it sounds not good to me. Hope it's any help.

akristel2003 · Answer

I would just ask her why she was so upset after a day or two, so that she has time to arrange her thoughts, and calm down from whatever the true cause of the anger was.

Anonymous · Answer

BE HONEST HAVE A TALK WITH HER:)

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