what do i do when people say things i havent done and i cant even think of doing?It bothers me a lot but there?

Sounds like you have been "labeled" and that is unfortunate. Most often this happens when a child or adolescent commits some type of crime like shoplifting for example. Then the kid becomes known as a thief, then a liar, and it just spirals out of control. It isn't fair to the one that is being subjected to this defamation of character. But unfortunately that "label" sticks to a kid long after the deed was done. If it was actually done by them in the first place.

People tend to jump to conclusions especially when they come from rough side of town or don't dress in an "appropriate" way. Often people just have no tolerance for those that dress differently, talk differently, and basically just don't conform to the preppy teen that seem to be so admired.

But I feel that you CAN do something about this labeling of you as being unfairly labeled is just wrong. I hate it when people label young kids when they shouldn't have ever been labeled in the first place. This is what I suggest that you do.

Be yourself. What is true about you is known to the Man Upstairs (or Woman Upstairs) and to you. And that is going to have to satisfy you for a while.

Meanwhile make sure that you obey all rules in your community. If you do party make sure that you are discreet and be responsible. Eventually people will begin to see you in a different light and you will not have to cry anymore. It is sad to be accused to something that you did not do but it happens every day. There are so many people in prison because others have lied or the police were corrupt or fake witnesses say that they saw who did the crime, even though they are innocent!

So remember this is temporary. You might want to move away from your home town when you graduate high school and do your best to make good grades so you can get a scholarship to go to college or a technical college. Just something so you can earn a good living and hopefully something that you will enjoy.

Do your best to hang around with those that like being with you and always remember that if you have ONE friend that you are rich. And if your family doesn't believe you then realize in your heart that one day you can leave home and begin a life that doesn't include ANY of these people that are hurting you right now. You will get older and then YOU can choose where you want to live and who you want to live with. You can live by yourself of course. Get a fresh start in a new town, preferably not a small town as I live in a small town and there is always much gossip going on in a small town.

Just always remember that you know the truth and your creator knows the truth and for now that is going to have to satisfy you. I know it won't be easy but in the long run it will strengthen your character. Good luck and bless you and I sure do wish you well. And always remember that you know the truth and those that are accusing you will get plenty of trouble in the future for their poor decision to falsely accuse you of something that you have not done. Good luck and bless you and I wish you well.

You have peace of mind knowing that you didnt do it. I know its really hard on you but just know that you are a good person and it was a misreading. they need to get their facts streight and to be honest its probably causing them more problem than you. Know that in a few months,w eeks even it will all blow over and maybe think, what can i learn from this :) so it can never happebn again. Get to the bottom of it