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Masculine guys dating feminine guys?

The other day I was thinking about relationships, and it occurred to me that if the circumstances were right, I wouldn't really have a problem ending up with an effeminate guy (I consider myself fairly masculine; sometimes I do things that may not be "manly" but at the same time not really "girly" either. I dunno....anyway though). Circumstances: similar interests, obvious chemistry, mutual attraction, etc. So it kind of got me thinking and noticing a lot of things: most gay guys only date other guys that are the same level of masculinity/femininity; at least that's from what I can see.

Just curious to see if anybody has ever heard of two guys with varying levels of masculinity/femininity be in a long term relationship. I appreciate any opinions on this topic.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    I'm a masculine "bear" type guy and right now I'm courting an effeminate guy. I really like the dynamic. He is very sweet. I think there are many dynamics in gay sexuality. You just have to find someone you can connect with.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    No, none would work. I'm gay and wouldn't date or do anything with a woman of any kind. She could be the most masculine girl ever. Straight guys wouldn't date a feminine guy either. Sexuality doesn't have anything to do with their personality. Some do prefer personalities, for example, I wouldn't date a feminine gay. They are huge turn offs for me(almost as much as a woman)/ So it does matter, but so does how they look and wether they have a vagina or penis.

  • 9 years ago

    We're all different I guess. I am into the masculine type of guy myself. I like muscle and domination but I am in no way effeminate - at least my wife will tell you. I want to feel good and also want to give my lover the best experience possible (male or female). I am lucky I have the wife I have!

  • 9 years ago

    I'm middley, but I consider myself more masc., and I'd rather date a feminine guy, or another in between person.

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  • 9 years ago

    I think, more often than not, that more effeminate guys are attracted to masculine guys than the other way around. i think it's more common for effeminate guys to date effeminate guys than it is for masculine guys to date effeminate guys. masculine guys are most often attracted to other masculine guys. from what i've seen/experienced.

    Source(s): being gay
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Have NO problems my bfs masculine

    I am feminate & having time of our lifes

    Xxxxx

  • 7 years ago

    Uh I'm just the opposity and seeking for the opposite. XD

  • 9 years ago

    I think its possible but I normally notice fem with fem and masc with masc

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    very true, I prefer feminine gay partners

  • 5 years ago

    I heard of it, in anime

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