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quick sex question, need advice?

I slept with a guy last night that I had also slept with once a few months back. Both times we were both drinking a lot and he initiated it both times. I was pretty hesitant last night but I gave in to his aggressive advances since I wanted it too..

The problem: He got a slight erection but had difficulty maintaining it. I gave him oral and manual simulation several times but he was still barely able to penetrate me. We tried for well over an hour.

My first reaction was that he's not attracted to me.. but if that's the case, why is he trying so hard to have sex with me? Could it be the alcohol that is making it difficult for him to get a solid erection? Or is he just not attracted to me?

Bah! What a confidence wrecker, lol..

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  • 9 years ago

    The first confidence wrecker was whatever led you to believe that putting out before being in a deeply committed relationship (if not married) is acceptable. I'm not judging you, truly, but I do mourn a little.

  • 9 years ago

    Alcohol does impede sexual performance. Or at least, in my case, it has.

  • 9 years ago

    Don't worry, alcohol screws with your sexual performance.

    Trust me

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201205...

    answer mines? :)

  • 9 years ago

    why not just ask him that seems simple and logical dont it

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    It was him, not you...

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