Have we reached our climax, is this the end of what could of been something great?

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I need advice from people outside my life, not friends, not family. My girlfriend and I have been together for a long time we currently have a 8 month old baby boy. Ever since our son was born things have not been the same. little back ground. She comes from a small family she never met her father and her grandpa was kicked out when she was young and never came back and died she doesn’t remember him so it’s all women. I come from a huge family. She drinks sometimes I never drink but have no problem with her drinking. I smoke cigars sometimes never around our son she never smokes. Told me I had to stop or she is leaving. She has built up this hate towards my mother, and two sisters. Told me I had to stop talking to them and stop seeing them. I told her I would quit smoking cigars if I do not have to stop contact with family but she said she I will not be around when they are and nor will our son. So basically family get togethers, I have to go alone. she is always fighting with me about the littlest stuff, like it takes me too long to cut the grass and more. So my question is, have we reached our climax and should we end it before it gets worse and we are completely miserable. I love her but not how she has been acting lately with the degrading talk about my family and fighting. I love our son more than words can say. I love coming home from work and him being there and him crawling towards me and smiling and laughing. I love putting him to bed and having him right next door to me. I just don’t know if I can live the rest of my life in a fight about stupid stuff or my family. Should I stay and just stick it out for my son or should we split so there will be no more fighting. She tells me I should love her no matter what and have no problem with this disowning my family. I tell her that if you want to be with me and love me and want to marry me then you should except my family for who they are because they come with me. You can’t choose family your born into it. please give me your impute whether I’m wrong or right or anything. Thanks!!

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You need to put your foot down (your the only one working). Now with the family thing it is ok, maybe there are good reason behind it, I know how family are. Cigars good to quit

But maybe you should trade some rules too. Like she should stop drinking, it is NEVER good. She needs to let little things slide or fix them asap instead of talking about them.

Cutting grass, you need to set a time to do it and do it routinely on time be a man, not a slouch

After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then another child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE  if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead. You can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. What every your handling there's no need to tell your family, just make sure you on the ball so you can get it back and score. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. Them can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.

White Knights never argue knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting ;)


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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Anonymous · Answer

What you have there is a want it all at once problem. Truth is most women don't but are happy to get around to it all like she seems to. The bunny ears might be rushing right past "there" and need a slightly lesser companion toy before that happens. Like letting off the gas only a bit. As far as longer orgasms go, I don't know if kegel/pc flexing would help a woman. I flex from back to front making more of my time ejaculating have orgasm.

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Unless your family have done anything to warrant this from her 
then its her who,s wrong to demand you do this or is she envious of what you have ?
plus your family have a right to see your son as he does them 
yes you should love her but she should,nt ask you to choose 
if you stay and disown your family who,s to say it will work anyway 
If she controls you enough to do this trust me it wont stop there ?

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How could it have been something great, if its the end? It is what it is.

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Have we reached our climax, is this the end of what could of been something great?

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