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I need some tips on how to control myself?
Ive been away from my husband for more than 8 consecutive months...its a situation where we cant really do anything about it but we have to wait on some documents in order for him to come to the US. We got married in 2009 and I had to leave for the US in 2010...ive been back to see him 8 mnths ago and dont know wen it would be possible to go again.
I feel like im breaking down and losing control.
Any ideas on how I should deal with this to feel better??
We have a 50% chance of seeing each other in like 4 mths but not sure as yet.
Any ideas?? Thanks
4 Answers
- 9 years ago
Focus on yourself figure out what type of lifestyle you want to live with your husband. If you need a career change now is a good time for that, if you need to save money, move, etc. So that when everything gets worked out, you two can start your lives together on a good foundation. Time will go by faster if you stay busy.
Source(s): http://www.gurlknow.com/blog - ?Lv 69 years ago
Instead of dwelling on your disappointment try to better youself. You have to learn to concentrate on making youself a better person for when you husband does get to come to the US.
You'll probably have to support him, so take classes to improve your skill set so you can get the best job possible.
Also, work out and get in the best shape you possibly can so he'll be proud of you.
