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How do i get girls to stop asking me out.. i get asked out a lot and they get mad when they find out i'm gay?

I currently have four girls pursuing me. i am out of the closet but i don't like to just tell people right off the bat. i have three girls at work that are pursuing me, asking me out and i keep making excuses why i can't go, also another girl that still calls me from my past job.

I guess i'm good looking, i have a swimmers body. I want to date a guy but i'm looking for a guy who likes me because he likes ME, and NOT just my body.

what is the best thing to say to these girls to not hurt their feelings. I told one girl last year and she was very religious and hated me when i told her i was gay. I like these girls and want to be friends with them, they're all sweet. what's the best way to tell them?

Update:

patient bear, that was my cousin. we use the same account

Update 2:

patient bear: neither of us use the email. we have hotmail accounts. we just have it so that we can logon here.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I would usually say I'm interested in someone else.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Odd that you're looking for a guy considering a week ago you asked a question about you and your partner moving away to get married...

    So then you guys use the same e-mail address? How odd.

    Right, it just came across as you were trolling for compliments. Or boasting about yourself. As for the girl thing, tell them you're gay, it's easy.

  • 9 years ago

    Three simple steps

    1) Get over yourself

    2) Be honest

    3) Accept that whatever happens happens

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    just take them out and be yourself. Girls love gay guys for some reason. When they offer you a bj at the end of the night, close your eyes really tight and pretend its a dude.

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  • 9 years ago

    This should not be happening at work. Just tell them that you don't socialize in the workplace. And you shouldn't. I always expected eight full hours of total concentration on the job from my employees. I'm sure your boss expects the same from you. (He knows he's not getting it from the women!)

  • Reason
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Act like a stereotypical gay guy.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    well you better tell them off the bat, you are gay right? dont lead them on thats not right. you wouldnt want some dude leading you on would you?

  • 9 years ago

    get out of this section...

    head over to trolling for compliments

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