Do you ever feel guilty having sex?

My girlfriend used to be that way. I think it has to do with religion condemning it so much. I think people feel like god is ashamed of them or was watching them.

Logically you shouldn't worry about it. It's completely natural. Why would a god make you want to have sex if you aren't supposed to?

If you aren't religious then I don't know why you would feel guilty.

If you were raised in a church, perhaps you are feeling guilty because the Bible teaches that sex outside of marriage is a sin. Good luck.

No, because I "went without" for a lengthy time period myself. end with the self-pity, PLEASE. How the hell will human beings feeling undesirable provide you a sex existence? all of us make selections. in case you don't love your existence, make some differences. . And yeah, I allow you to recognize to make differences on your existence by the indisputable fact that become what finally helped me locate the right one. yet do not attempt to position a guilt holiday on me, or all people else--i become on my own longer than you've been alive and that i'm no longer going to spend one minute regretting that i eventually chanced on love yet i desire you do, too-- in case you end this whiny guilt-tripping.

I'd recommend a professional's help. If there's no obvious reason why you'd feel guilty then the internet won't help you. Good luck.

because you lose that sexual feeling. AT least guys do? are you sure you are a girl?

i think that's one of the most moronic questions ever asked. there's nothing to feel guilty about as far as having sex goes, ever.

if women should feel guilty about anything as far as all of that is concerned, it's the horribleness and wrongfulness of them not giving guys enough sexual opportunites with them.

it's wrong for women to not give guys sexual opportunities with them as long as the guy doesn't deserve to suffer, so if women don't give guys sexual opportunities with them immediately and frequently like they're supposed to as long as those guys don't deserve to suffer, then women should feel guilty and wrong for not giving it to them.

heterosexual foreplay and sex between guys and women IS a need, in case you didn't know.

sexual repression and prudishness are wrong because they can only cause more harm than good. if anything, there needs to be more foreplay and sex between guys and women in this world, not less of it.

women are supposed to need foreplay and sex with guys just as much, immediately, frequently, urgently, intensely, and casually as vice versa.

women are supposed to sexually prefer guys over women since vice versa is the case.

also, heterosexual foreplay and sex between men and women IS a need.

the reason there's so much unhappiness and so many problems in this world is because of a LACK of heterosexual foreplay and sex between guys and women.

if women are so caring, loving, compassionate like they like to claim that they are, then they WILL give guys foreplay and sex immediately and casually if they know those guys are horny and miserable without it, and they won't give them a hard time or make them jump through any hoops in the process.

and heterosexual foreplay and sex between guys and women should be happening whether it's inside or outside of marriage, and whether it's casual or it's within a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

since women don't have to workout or be fit like jillian michaels from the biggest loser in order to be sexy to guys(in fact, there's MANY full-figured and semi full-figured women who don't workout at all and are not fit at all that are mega-sexy to guys, even sexier to guys than jillian michaels is), vice versa shouldn't have to be the case either.

so since most women aren't toned like jillian michaels yet many of them are sexier to guys than jillian michaels is, that must mean, by logic, that many guys should be sexy to women even if they don't have 6 pack abs, so there should be many guys who are mega-sexy to women based on looks alone who don't workout at all and who aren't fit at all but are sexy to women, even sexier to women that guys who workout all the time and have 6 pack abds, since again, vice versa is the case.

guys shouldn't have to supplement themselves with gestures or status just for women to sexually want them since vice versa isn't the case. he alone and him just approaching women for it and being open and honest with his need for heterosexual foreplay and sex with her and any other women he's sexually into should be enough, that's the only effort the guy should have to make in order to get heterosexual foreplay and sex with women.

human beings are better than animals and are a higher form of life than animals, so unlike male animals, male human beings shouldn't have to prove themselves or fight anyone just get sexual with members of the opposite sex within their own species.

animals fight each other for sex, but human beings are better than that. with human beings, fighting should only be for fun and for sport, getting to have foreplay and sex with members of the opposite sex shouldn't be relevant to it at all.

and women need to understand that heterosexual foreplay and sex is a need and them depriving guys of it is wrong if those guys don't deserve to suffer. if he has a girlfriend and was flirting with and trying to pick up on another woman or women after he agreed to go steady with his girlfriend, then sure, maybe he should suffer for a while, but then after that while is up, she should forgive him and continue to give him heterosexual foreplay and sex again as their relationship maintains.

if women are so compassionate, they will give guys sexual opportunities with them immediately and frequently as long as those guys don't deserve to suffer.