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BQ:Guys, besides sex, what gift would you like to receive for Valentines Day?

Examples: Maury Povich, Jeremy Kyle, Jerry Springer. All you ever see are crazy acting blacks, whites and even Hispanics. It's never Asians getting out of line. Why is that?

I never have although I absolutely would. I'm a black woman and I find guys of all races attractive.

BQ: For those who may answer no, why not?

...is drinking iced tea considered blasphemy? I only ask because I met some people from the U.K. who drink their beer warm. Since tea is a popular drink there, I was wondering if the beer rules applied to tea drinking. It's an absolute treat to drink iced tea, especially in the southern part of the U.S. where I reside. Thanks in advance for answering.

Remember when Nickelodeon showed great cartoons and MTV showed music videos? How about watching Power Rangers while eating your 1st Lunchable and drinking Capri Sun? Anybody remembers the Box (for those who didn't have cable)?

I'm 27 years old and have been in a relationship for 9 years. Sex is usually fun for me but whether I have an orgasm or not, I feel guilty afterwards. I hate that feeling because I know I or my boyfriend haven't done anything wrong. Why do I feel guilty afterwards?

Some of you may have either experienced it or seen it in movies but at black people's funerals, people cry of course and then there are some who scream and holler and pass out. This was the scene at my aunt's funeral this weekend. I've attended a white person's funeral once. The family was quiet and appeared to actually look bored. Can anyone shine some light on this?

I've been in a relationship for 9 years. I love my guy but I find other guys attractive just as I'm sure he finds other women attractive. This one guy in particular has caught my eye and I've crushed on him for maybe 6 months. We've never acted on this attraction. Does this make me a bad girlfriend?

A straight guy whose best friend is a lesbian or an Asian guy dating a Black girl?

Note: There are plenty of straight girls who befriend gay guys(including myself) so i'm curious.

Actually, I've been in a LTR for 9 years but I've had a crush on a guy for over a year. My current BF is a great man but we never seem to have time for each other anymore. (and we live together) My crush is so sexy and sweet and a real gentleman. My crush admitted last night that he likes me back but won't go any further because he respects my current relationship. The sad thing is I've known for a long time that I'd be just fine w/o my boyfriend. What should I do?

For me, I've never watched E.T. or was able to sit through an entire Star Wars movie and I'm 26 years old. No need to share age but come on. Share. We're all friends here.

Like for a paternity test? Because I haven't. I wonder why.

This question is for non-virgins, of course.

BQ: How long is too long without sex?

My boyfriend of 8 years thinks that he should. I adore him but I already have a best friend. I've known my best friend for at least 20 years. He's earned that "best friend" title. Any thoughts?

I've been with my wonderful boyfriend for 8 years. In the last 3 years we may have had sex like 8 times and it wasn't very good. We are great in every aspect of the relationship but sex. It's been 6 months since we last had sex. I really don't want to look elsewhere for sex but I miss it so much. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

My BF of 7 years is NOT my best friend. Mine is a guy I've known since kindergarten. My BF feels like he should count as a best friend. Is he right?

I read somewhere that black women(and Asian men) are the least desired in interracial relationships. Really, are we that bad?

I live up the street from a police station. Every cop I've seen on the road was either texting, talking or digging in their purses while driving. If they won't respect the law, why should we?