Pregnancy question?!! Need serious help!!?

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Me and my girl had protected sex on friday night twice, using a condom both times. It was her first time so she was in a bit of pain but we dealt with it accordingly, and everything was fine. But then last night she text me saying she had started "spotting", she said she found a little bit of blood in her underwear, so i googled it and found resources saying that this could be the early stages of pregnancy, but also could be a mid cycle bleeding thing. We're really scared that she's pregnant, i know its only been a day but you automatically assume the worst in these situations, and a pregnancy really isn't something we want or are ready for, its completely out of the question. What should we do next?? Should we get a pregnancy test, or should we wait until she's due on her period to know for sure, because she told me that they can display wrong results for up to 17 days. Does anybody know what the chances are she is pregnant? We used protection after all, i really want to believe this is a realt badly timed coincidence. All sensible answers appreciated, thanks guys

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Firstly it's fantastic you're using protection!!! So many questions come from kids who don't think about it

Secondly as it was her first time it's completely normal to get some spotting as her body has done something it's not done before so don't worry

Thirdly it would not be a sign of pregnancy so  soon after sex as it takes around 7 days for conception and implantation. For future referencethe best time to test for pregnancy is when a girl misses her period

For what it's worth I'm 100% she isn't pregnant from what you've said.

Skibabe · Answer

Don't worry, it's totally normal to for a girl to bleed a little bit after her first time, nothing to worry about.  Just make sure that when you pull out of her, you always hold the condom at the base of your penis otherwise they can slip off, and you'll be absolutely fine.  

And she's wrong about the pregnancy tests, they're 99% accurate from the day of your period.  The only time that changes is just occasionally when a woman gets a "false negative" - she's actually pregnant but doesn't have enough HcG hormone to show up on the test, but she still has missed her period giving her a clue that she might be pregnant.

And as for bleeding being a pregnancy symptom, there is such a thing as implantation bleeding but it's incredibly rare that a woman sees it and most don't.  It's a little light pink spot of blood, seen when a woman wipes with loo paper. Most never see it and it comes about 5 days or so after ovulation, if you have sex when the woman is ovulating (releasing an egg and the only time a woman can get pregnant). Don't worry, you guys are fine.

Nikki · Answer

Relax love, small amounts of bleeding after the first time is very normal.  The bleeding when pregnant would be way after the actual sex act.  It's fab that you used protection but sounds like you might need a little more sex education.  :)

Anonymous · Answer

Ohkay - so it was her FIRST time haveing sex ?
She is probolly bleeding because when a girl loses her virginity it stretches hervagina .. And you could have popped her cherry .. Therefore - it will cause her to bleed ! Its normal no need to worry ... She most likely aint pregnant its just .... She just lost her virginity (lol) and some girls do bleed/spot when they lose there virginity ... It can even cause some girls to start there period ... So no worries (:  i hope i helped

Anonymous · Answer

The bleeding after her first time is very natural ithappens

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