Should I ask her out again?

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I've worked with this girl for the past year or so and never really spoke to her. About 2 months ago she starts talking to me, offers her number and we flirt. I felt there was something there considering the fact the she never said anything beyond "hi" to me before. I finally got a chance to ask her out, i casually asked her "hey what would you say to the two of us going out sometime?" She replied that she's going to be really busy over the summer and won't have time for anything else. Normally I would just take it as a no, and walk. However I believe her because she does work 3 jobs, one with me, she's a consultant  and a freelance photographer and the summers are really busy for photography due to weddings. So that's all she said. I was thinking about playing it cool and perhaps asking her out again once the summers over and things slow down. Should I? Or should I take it as her being polite and saying no and just move on?

amelie · Accepted Answer

If i really liked someone I would say yes no matter how busy I was, but then again I am a tad reckless and do not have 3 jobs ie: I am obviously not as mature as this girl lol.

I would say ask her again, if she says the same thing then leave it there, tell her you compleatly understand but tell her to give you a call because you would love to take her out when she is free.

Definitely ask her again, but dont come across as needy.

Hopefully it will turn out that she really wanted to say yes the 1st time you asked but she was just too shy to bring it up again, you have nothing to lose really, and everything to gain. Good luck!

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johnb693 · Answer

It seems she's being truthful about being busy all summer, but a bit of a stretch, don't you think.
We all get busy at times, but surely, she could set aside one night, if it's just for a nice dinner out and perhaps a movie.
Anyway, there will be no harm done, if you ask her out again, after summer. If she say's no or gives another excuse then, you know you are out of luck.
Meanwhile, look around, and see if you can't find some girl, who would love to go out with you and isn't as busy as this girl is. Summer is a long time, just to wait for another chance at a date.

Ѕαℓιиα · Answer

Dude she likes you just ask her out to put you out of ur misery..

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