Godly wives answer?? Please need advice?

Honey, if you've talked this all over, feel he won't do it to you again, they you need to put it ALL in God's Hands. We KNOW God does hear & answer our prayers. Yes, in time you WILL get over this initial shock of finding out, but you'll still never forget it. You are human, do have a mind, & it will always be in the back of your mind regardless. That saying is so true, "if God got me to it, God WILL get me thru it", that He WILL do. Honey, pray & turn it ALL in God's Hands & He WILL help guide you thru. Trust in Him at ALL times, He WILL see you thru. With God ALL things ARE possible if we only believe...take good care, honey, the Lord bless you...:)

He needs to be confronted if you haven't yet, he needs to make a decision about your marriage, whether he wants you or somebody else, and you both need to go to counseling. If he is not willing to work on it you have a right to leave. Not necessarily get a divorce right away, but infidelity is never right under any circumstances. You do not have to put up with it, but as a Christian should give him the time and opportunity to take responsiblity. If after a long time of waiting he does nothing to help your marriage and you have prayed about what to do, God may very well release you from it and you are free to get a divorce. People are just too quick to go right out and divorce.

Waiting on God is not always easy but the right thing to do. And He is the only one who can heal the hurt.

Why would a good 13 year old be with a guy??!! Well, anyway, your husband knows you won't divorce him so he will ALWAYS cheat on you.

Maybe one day he will get a sexually transmitted disease and pass it on to you?

Will you accept this risk?

Yes?

Then carry on, he can't truly love you because he is hurting you. You can't truly love yourself either, because you are with a man who doesn't love or respect you. You have no one else to go to. You are insecure about yourself and your attractiveness, and you will always stay with your husband who will continue to cheat on you.

It's your choice.

Oh, by the way, God allows for divorce in the case of infidelity (but you don't want to divorce, you want your husband to continue to hurt you for the next fifty years).

Cheating is a violation of the marriage. You are only 22. Find a good man.

I married at age 19 and had 3 kids with 5 years. My husband cheated on me too. Truthfully, I tried to get past it but I couldn't. We went to counseling and although I tried hard to forgive him I still couldn't forget.

He had issues taking responsibilty so I finally left. If your husband has changed and proves it day in and day out, try to work it out. Marriage takes a lot of hard work and if he's a good guy and has been faithful since then, try to work it out for your family. Good luck.

First off: It takes two people to have a relationship. Both people need to be committed to making it work. Judging by your question, he isn't committed. Since he's done it more than once, (and adultery is against the Commandments) I would suggest entertaining the notion of breaking it off. Obviously, he knows cheating will hurt you, but does it anyway.

You will be much happier with someone who wants to have the relationship with you and only you.

Who knows why men cheat? Some men cheat because they can. Some men cheat because it's there. Some men cheat for the variety, some men cheat because they know that's a deal-breaker and they want for their wives to leave them but they don't have the guts to tell her, "I don't want to be married to you anymore."

Either you let it go, or you don't. Either you get over it, or you don't. Only you can decide if you'll stop going on and on and ON about it, and just let it go.

Who knows why he did it? HE probably doesn't even know why he did it, but one thing is for sure - he's sick and tired of you bringing it up.

It doesn't really matter "why" he did it - he did it, OK? It's done, and you either let it go and get over it, or leave.

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All men are h0rny pigs, especially religious ones are the worst. They think it's okay because they can just pray for gods forgiveness. Bullsh!t. Why don't you drop the bible crap and just be a good person without all the god rubbish. Rely on your conscience not "god".

Leave him.