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We've already had to push our wedding back once, is it wrong if we do it again because I'm pregnant?
We were meant to get married last year but decided to push it back a year. We decided to push it back because my fiance's grandfather died and his funeral was the day of our wedding. We're currently expecting our first child and I'm wanting to push our wedding back again by a couple of months, just to off load some of the stress. The wedding isn't until September when I'll be 31 weeks pregnant, it just fell that our wedding day fell in my third trimester. The stress of planning the wedding isn't helping me or the baby, when I found out I was pregnant I thought I could do it all but obviously I can't. With it affecting our baby, we both think its best to push it back so the baby is healthy and happy. We mentioned it to his parents the other night at dinner and they weren't very happy especially as they believe that if we 'cancel' as they put it again then will find another reason to put it off again.
Is it wrong if we push our wedding back again?
8 Answers
- RitaLv 69 years agoFavorite Answer
I don't blame your parents for being unhappy. They are likely embarrassed at these choices that you have made.
What's with the deal about planning for a wedding? Simply find a minister or justice of the peace and get married. You don't need a party at this point. You are about to become a parent and any money earmarked for a celebration should not go for the upbringing of this child.
Yes, it's nice to have all of the parties and things associated with weddings but you have chosen to have children. This is now your priority.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
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- ?Lv 69 years ago
No its ur choice its ur wedding but if ur gonna push ot back tilk after u have the baby dont u think it would be just as stressful with a newborn trying to have a wedding? Y dont u just have a small wedding and just invite a few ppl the closest to u that way its not stressful or expensive
- Anonymous9 years ago
Its not wrong, at the end of the day it is your big day and your parents may be unhappy about it but this doesn't mean you need to please them. Do whatever makes you and your partner happy.. I don't blame you for wanting to push it back with a baby on the way.
Baby is more important than a big wedding, I'd wait so then the baby can be part of it as well!
- Anonymous9 years ago
I set 3 wedding dates before it actually happened. As long as the invitations haven't been sent and people haven't started booking travel plans, then push it back. I postponed the first time for financial reasons, the second because I got pregnant. Third time's a charm, right?! :) It's totally up to you and your fiancée.
- ?Lv 79 years ago
Did you already send out your Wedding Invitations? If not, then this isn't a problem, just arrange a new Wedding date and notify those people that you had already told the date to.
- ?Lv 79 years ago
It isnt wrong to cancell it again but if I was you I would bring it forward and have it before baby is born because if you dont have time now you certainly wont have the time when baby arrives, Good Luck
- ?Lv 79 years ago
It's YOUR wedding do what makes you hapou. They will eat their words when you make it down the isle.