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I feel like in my life all i do is screw up and make mistakes?

so me and this guy i was dating broke up for good on Sunday night he said that he needed to move on and be himself. Well the thing is that i've loved this guy for almost a year we both agreed that we had this amazing connection and then in May we wind up going out and we only go out till the beginning of June and then i start getting pessimestic and i'm sorry for that and then we date for a week and drama comes up again and a again. I'm sorry for hurting him i feel like thats all i do is hurt the people i love the most and who are closet to me.

He and i had something special and now he won't even talk to me its like he lost all faith in me and us and i didn't. I gained faith after going to Chicago and Buckeye Girls State.

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But heres the thing he is my soul mate i love. I've tried praying to god that hed let me let go of him but i cant right after i do his voice comes into my head and tells me that our baby is a girl and that he loves me and stuff like that. I know he is the one. I can feel it everytime he held my hand he felt like it should be there. I LOVE HIM WITH MY WHOLE BEING AND SOUL.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    I used to feel the same exact way. But you know what.. what's life without mistakes? It's how we learn in life. Nobody's perfect. I would much rather make mistakes in my life than do absolutely nothing at all. I totally understand that's it extremely difficult to get over a guy, especially one you gave your heart and soul to. But you need to be strong. Live your life. Not every girl needs a man to survive. At some point in my life I had given up on the hope of finding my soulmate. I assumed I'd just be "forever alone". Then suddenly without me expecting it, the person I've been waiting for came into my life. And it WILL happen to you, just when you least expect it. Try being more social -- go out with friends and be spontaneous and let loose of your wild side. Don't mope around and focus on the negative feelings. The best you can do at this point is scrape up as much positivity as possible. Surround yourself with out-going fun people who you can live with. Don't stress or let your mind wander on the situation. If you feel like you hurt everybody, try to control your emotions. Think before you act, think before you say something. Just surround yourself with the people you love and start LIVING.

    I really hope I helped. :)

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