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Jordan asked in HealthMen's Health · 9 years ago

Should i have sex without a condom?

having sex with a condom just isn't fun and pleasurable, honestly i get more pleasure masturbating. Im worried about my safety and not others beacause i know im fine but i dont want children or an std and the chances of getting those greatly increase from not using a condom. I am also thinking there is no point if there is no pleasure. what is your opinion on my problem

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  • 9 years ago
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    Yes only if you can pull out fast enough to avoid the parenting mess. Or just tity **** or *** in her mouth towards the end after the classic penetrating.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Try different condoms. A restricting condom is uncomfortable; that said I had sex for 12 years using condoms and never had any problems-- use Magnums due to my size and they fit like a glove. So try different brands and see which feels most comfortable. And of course use them. NEVER have sex without a condom, because YES, you can get a girl pregnant from having sex just once. Just no way that 5 or 10 minutes of pleasure is worth 18 years of child support and all the anguish that comes from getting girl pregnant. Nothing wrong with kids, they are wonderful to have. But better to be wanting kids and not having them by accident.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I personally believe that this depends completely upon the kind of sex you are having. Are you in a committed relationship? Or are you just hooking up? .. My girlfriend and I never use condoms when we have sex for the same reason you don't want to. Its more pleasurable. She is however, on the pill. We are in a serious relationship and have been for a while now. I don't for-see any horrible life changing repercussions as a result of our actions and neither does she. We are otherwise protected and this works for US. Everyone is different though and if you are only having sex with someone you aren't serious with, or with someone you do not intend on seeing again then I suggest you use them.

  • 9 years ago

    I know what you mean and how you feel man.

    Condoms can ruin the moment and yes, they decrease pleasure alot.

    BUT

    You have to think long term, in the heat of the moment, deciding not to use one can seem like a good idea, but afterwards you could be faced with some other consequences. STD/I's, Pregnancy on your partners part etc..

    Have you discussed contraception with your partner etc? If she'd be willing to take the pill, implant etc.

    But remember it isn't all up to her, you have to play your part too. Try experimenting. Foreplay and other fun stuff can just be as good as sex itself.

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  • 9 years ago

    NO!

    Always wear a condom unless you are trying for children, there are condoms that are ultra fine so you can still feel intermate. I and get them off amazon they are a hell of a lot cheaper then the stores. Also what you could do it a bit of foreplay with the condom to make it more exciting.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Are you saying that you're unable to orgasm when using a condom?

    Orgasms are extremely pleasurable, so if you are having orgasms when using condoms...you're obviously getting pleasure from it.

    Are you just trying to come up with an excuse to not have safe sex?

  • R T
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you've got it figured out. Personally, I wouldn't want to chance an incurable STD for a few moments of fun.

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  • 9 years ago

    No, AIDS is a life sentence and children are for ever. There is always pleasure with someone you love - all you have to do is find them. Until then, masturbate!

  • 9 years ago

    Not a smart thing to do. You could get aids, or some incurable std..not worth the risk.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    You probably never got used to using them, but a baby and an STD totally not worth it.

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