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How can i tell my grandmom this?

Im 14 and ive lived with her for 5 years due to my Mom Kinda Abusing me and doing Drugs all the time, But my grandma is ALWAYS hugging and kissing on me and when i pull away she gets all sad and says "I love you, but you don't love me" and makes me feel bad. How can i tell her NO TEENAGE GIRL WANTS TO BE TREATED like that(I know i don't) Mainly is Public is where she does it

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  • 9 years ago

    Have a serious talk with her over coffee or tea. Make her a good breakfast and begin the talking. Try to understand that if your mom is her daughter than she is just feeling like she probably failed as a mother and wouldnt want you to fall in the same foot steps. She probably did not do the same for your mom as she does for you. Older people can get more emotional especially when they feel like they've failed in something from the past. Just let her know how much you love her and say it every time you leave your house. No matter how old a girl gets the motherly figure should here that every time she leaves the house.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Try and say it like

    "Err nanna, all the other kids around, when you hug me and that, they all laugh at me, cos they think you're (pause here), treating me like a little kid (say it like you've just thought of that). I love you to bits, and indoors I'll give you all the hugs & kisses you want, but can we not do that in public? Its not that I don't love you, and I DEFINATELY (emphasise this bit) do, its just, ya know (and trail off)."

    Hope it helps! Good luck xx

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  • 9 years ago

    Just tell her you love her, make sure she knows it!! But just explain that you like to be hugged and kissed, just not in public as it's embarrassing for teenage girls. She'll understand, I'm sure.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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