How to put up with meddling step daughter?

It appears that your step daughter has some deep issues with herself.

If I were you I would sit my husband down and have a nice talk with him.

Never put up with anyone that is disrespectful toward you especially with an adult step daughter that has a family of her own.

If she is this bad then exclude her from your life.

Allow Dad to visit with her and have some place to go when she visits your home.

Men hate to be put in the middle but your husband needs to be aware of what his adult daughter is doing.

When he sees it he needs to confront her and put a stop to her behavior.

She is not only hurting you but is also hurting her father.

Whatever this woman's problem is she needs to get some help for herself and until she does I would stay away from her.

So, do you have a step daughter or a step son, b/c this question doesn't make sense.

Consider the source and ignore it.

she is insecure about you and is testing you..hang in there and prove yourself to her...

Um...?