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I hate when someone yells at me?

I really hate it when someone is yelling at me even if I walk away they still keep blaming me until the point I just start to cry. Don't you hate that?

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well I would but I don't walk away, I give as good as I get and then some if I think they deserve it.

  • Yes, a lot of people don't like to get yelled at including me. Understand that the person yelling is dealing with their own feelings. Maybe you did even do anything serious but they are still mad. That's because the problem is within them.

    Some tips would be:

    Stay calm

    You don't have to jump into this cycle of anger with them

    Blaming will never resolve any situation, it only tries to put guilt on another person but you can choose weather it succeeds or not

    don't blame back

    if you try to talk to the other person instead of raising your voice, lower it

    try not to use your hands while talking

    and, remember that the point of talking to someone about a tough situation is not to solve it but to gain a better understanding of each other

    In any relationship, neither person can win,the relationship can win but people cannot.

    Lastly you cannot control another person's emotions, so if you find yourself in these types of situations and are at the last resort know that now it's come down to only what you can do for yourself to deal with it not how you can control another person.

    I wish you luck!

    Source(s): Pretty good knowledge of Psychology, I want to be a therapist when I get older.
  • ?
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    You're not alone. I hate that too.

    I get blamed for almost everything, and most of the things aren't even true.

    So tell the person who yells at you how you feel, and hopefully they'll understand.

  • Kevin
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    We all hate that, but what I do is I don't do things that will cause me to get yelled at and if u didn't do anything wrong then u yell back.

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