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relationship.. we argue and fight but i cant walk away?
i'm with this guy and we argue at least twice a week mostly about our sex life, i just got rid of a cyst so dont feel like doing anything as its still painfull even though i got the all clear, he walks out when we argue and i have to pick up the pieces always. i dont know whether to leave him or not, i dont really know what i would do without him sometimes but others i could kill him..so advice?
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- peppermint_paddyLv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
If you enjoy the ups and downs of your relationship, then stay with him.
If you enjoy peace of mind as well as being treated respectfully, then move on. There are nice guys out there. When you get a little older and the sex is less frequent, you still have a partner that you enjoy doing other things with.
- Keysha JLv 59 years ago
The bottom line is you explain to him that sex were a bit to painful for you, so he should understand right? Wrong . I think men think different then us women, they have no idea what we go though to order to make them happy. But if you got to argue half of the time what is wrong with your body because you don't feel like having sex, the the hell with him. Because one i would tell him off or two he have two choices a hand or ********. Now he not happy with that so be, go cry a river and get out my face. Also if you like the argue about your body then really that a decide you have to make, because like i said and i say it again it your body to his
- Anonymous9 years ago
if there are blown out arguments over something as silly as your sex life...it sounds like your relationship is at its tails end. If there are problems with sex, it generally means that the attraction is dying out... when in a healthy relationship sex should really not be an issue. I think it's time you ended it... going with my gut here... but end it now before it gets worse
Source(s): experience - 9 years ago
Guys want sex, they will argue and fight and beg and plead and buy gifts to get it... It doesn't matter if its your current boyfriend or the next one, they will want sex...
Your best bet is to sit your boyfriend down, take hold of his arm, and give him an Indian hand burn, tell him, "This is what sex feels like for me at this moment in my recovery..." Hopefully he will get the message.
