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My boy friend lied why can't I trust him?
6 months into our relationship my boy friend went to see his grandparents, while away he text and spoke to his ex over four days I only found out because his phone called and I noticed the texts, it's been two years on and I can't forget or trust him, he said he missed her thought bout her and was going to meet her, till this day she trying to win him over texts after texts he never replies, however new years eve he never came home let alone next day, she says he was with her any advice she was his first love,
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- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
I would have some serious trust issues if that happened to me. I can understand how you feel, though. I've been deceived in the past too. Even though your bf may not have meant to hurt you, he obviously has some unresolved issues to deal with regarding his ex. You need to tell him that he either has to go back to his ex & see it through, or cut off all contact with her and focus on your relationship. He cannot have both. He needs to make a choice because it is not fair for you to have to endure this because he isn't over her. Sounds like he still has a lot to figure out. I don't think you will ever fully trust him again anyway, so maybe separating is for the best
- 9 years ago
You have the answer to your own question Why can't you trust him? because he lied
