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What age should you start having sexual thoughts?

Okay, first of all, i'm 14, and a lot of my friends siblings are like talking dirty and groping each other (they're like 11 and 12), and personally I think its really disgusting. My friend's brother is 13 and he's not a virgin. Im going to be honest, I do masturbate, but I wouldn't do anything with an actual person for at least another 4 years. I might change my perspective sooner, but is it weird that I don't wanna do anything sexual yet?

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  • 9 years ago
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    NO. It's not weird it's normal. I actually applaud that and I hope you continue thinking those thoughts. I honestly wish that more people were like you because I got involved in that stuff around 14 and all it was was stress and setbacks. It made me into someone I wasn't and I hate that.

  • 9 years ago

    You hit puberty, its ok to have those thoughts and feelings! The important thing is to not act on them without proper education!! Sexual relationships are meant for adults. Those who could handle a child if they were to get pregnant. Understand the risks of STD's. I strongly recommend waiting until you are married to have sexual intimacy with another person. Than you can pour your soul into that person and have that special bond. It'll be hard cuz you are growing and your hormones will go crazy! But, it'll be more special if it's with someone you CAN give your heart and soul to. Let it be with someone that is MEANT to be, rather than HOPED to be.

  • 9 years ago

    NO ITS NOT WEIRD UNLESS U CRAY AND HAVE A BEARD YOUR ONLY FOURTEEN NA WHAT I MEAN YOU HAVE THE WHOLE TIME TO GROW ANY MAN THAT DONT GET THAT PLEASE DO NOT HIT DAT GUYS LIKE THAT U SHOULD JUST THROW AND HECK IF U HAVE IT HIT HIM WITH A BALL OF SNOW HAHAH HE BE CRYING ON HIS PILLOW LIKE A HO-MO JUST KIDDING U SHOULD MAKE HIM SOME RICE THEN SAY I DONT DO THAT STUFF BUT SAY IT NICE JUST BE YOU CUZ THAT ALL U CAN REALLY DO

    Source(s): MEE
  • 9 years ago

    I'd say 11-12

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Its okay.

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