Boyfriend Question...?

He needs to consider your comfort. Learn how to foreplay better with his tongue, lips, and fingers, and maybe invest in some lubricant, K-Y Jelly is great. My girlfriend and I use it all the time as she is very small below and my penis is 9 inches long, 6 and a half inches in thickness fully aroused so I'm speaking from experience here.

You don't mention actually how big and thick his penis is so I'm guessing it's my size or bigger. Also more importantly you don't mention WHEN the pain is occuring. For example when he first enters you or when you and him are actually copulating.

Also if your relationship with him is in it's early stages it may just take some time for that area of your body to get adjusted to his size. If there is pain on him entering you try this: As I said my current g/f is very small below and when we first started having sex we both wondered if we were going to last. We tried everything but she said it felt like I was splitting her in half. Then I came up with the idea, God knows from where, to enter her when she was lubricated but only at about 3 quarter erect and it worked. I would complete my full erection inside of her and she found it to be totally comfortable. We used this method for about the first six weeks of our relationship and have never looked back.

What made this technique work though were 2 very important things. Timing and frequency.

By timing I mean you and your boyfriend are going to have to experiment to find out at what stage his penis is firm enough to enter you but not so big it's causing you pain. Just remember that no guy can control the size and espescially the speed of his erections so once he starts getting hard it keeps going till it's fully erect so that's why it's important to get that down.

By frequency I mean you and your b/f should have sex as much as possible as 1.) The erection/timing thing will get better and 2.) The more you do it the quicker you will get used to his penis size.

Another suggestion that may help is technique, if he gets inside of you and starts pounding hard straight away, he needs to stop. That's something I used to do and I learned pretty quickly that it's not always a good idea. If he does do this have him start with long slow thrusts and then you can use your hips to coordinate with his thrusts. Eventually you will find a comfortable rhythm and then he can build up the speed with his thrusts. I also used this technique with my g/f and now that she's used to my size I can enter her and pound away right at the beginning if I want and she loves it.

As for different positions just experiment.Much of this will depend on your build below. For example, because of my size, some girls I've been with have only been able to take me doggy style even though they didn't really like that position. Other girls I've been with have been total doggy stylists but because of the combination of my size and their build below, we had to use other positions. I personally don't really care for doggy style or any other position where my girlfriend and I can't have each others tongue muscle down our throats. I'm really into intimacy so while doggy is great for larger penises like your boyfriend and I have, insofar as deeper penetration is concerned, it decreases in my view the actual feeling of giving something to someone you care about. Try the good old missionary position with him on top. Cowgirl, reverse or otherwise is not a really a good choice for sex with larger penises unless your build is very big below. Hope this helps.