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My Penis makes my girlfriend (and then me!) sick. why?

first thoughts are the same- get tested. we both did, and both negative, nothing wrong.

yet when me and my girlfriend have sex without a condom, it hurts her after when she pee's. or when she deepthroats me to far, she gets sick for days on end, and when i kiss her while shes sick it gets me sick too!

so the problem is zoned to my penis but i dont know whats wrong. i tryed extra cleaning it every morning but still nothing different.

any suggestions at all would greatly help, as the school semester just began and nether of us can afford being sick during :P

thank you! sorry its such an odd question

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  • 9 years ago

    Do not clean your penis or vagina vigorously. If it hurts when she pees after you guys have intercourse she probably has a UTI... Urinary tract infection.. very common. Stings when you pee... feels like its hard to pee.. you have to go often. Go to the doctor have her give a urine sample. You probably just have tonsillitis. Take better care of yourselves... take vitamin C.. get proper nutrition.. go to bed early.. DRINK LOTS AND LOTS OF WATER.Try to sweat as much as you can. I doubt you're getting sick from your penis. It sounds like you're just sick (sinus stuff) and passing it back and fourth.

    It wouldn't be a bad idea to get tested for every STD and have bloodwork done. Don't worry I don't think it sounds like you have an STD.. But just for good measure the both of you should get tested. Maybe you have mono? Get blood work done.

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    9 years ago

    Get tested again. For everything. If it hurts her to pee, I'm thinking Cystitis, which can just come from friction & bruising.

    But to contract something wrong back from her orally, makes me think Chlamidea..(women can get NO symptoms!)

    Don't be over-cleaning your penis as could strip natural protective agents? I know that's the case for us girls anyway... It may not be you.. so make absolutey sure SHE's tested fully too.

    Both get full inspections again, boring -but only way to know...and tell them all the problems.

    best o luck :)

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