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Should I be angry with my sister?
We live so far apart, it is difficult to get to see one another. After lots of broken promises that she would visit me, I went to visit her. I gave her the dates I was arriving 6 months in advance. But when I got there she was working and I hardly saw her. We agreed it would be better if I gave her more notice and she could take leave and we would have a holiday together. So a few years later I gave her a whole year's notice, and went to visit her again. Before I left she said she couldn't go on holiday so I said I would pay for her too. She seemed to think that was a good idea and sounded excited. When I got there, once again she worked the whole time I was there.
Now I don't know what to think. We used to be so close. If she didn't want to see me, she should have said. I only went out there because she kept saying how much she needed to see me. It cost me a lot of money. She also got me to pay out a lot of money for her children as well. Part of me misses the sister who I have so much fun with when we are together. But part of me feels used.
3 Answers
- Anonymous9 years ago
well I would too defiently feel used too but maybe its all a matter of just simply having a conversation with her (don't text that would be dumb) about how you feel YOUR SISTERS AFTER ALL she won't get nasty and try to fight with you over stupid things (not that what your asking is stupid just saying) like a friend would so talk with her about how you feel and see what she has to say ask her why she forgets or why she constantly works and that you gave her heaps of notice and also it might pay off to ask her just how she feels about it and why she is working when you go to visit? Maybe you could visit when she is on Hollidays after all, surely she wants to spend time with you too?
Source(s): meeeeeee!!!! - 9 years ago
Talk to her about it. Seriously, you must. It could be just a simple, 'work wouldn't let me'. I know a lot of jobs out there that no matter how much warning you give, they just wont let you have time off.
- 9 years ago
Yes sound like she is a user. Stop going to see her. If she wants to see you so bad she can come see you from now on.
Can you answer my question about my sister? We should become sisters since ours suck. lol
