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Free 10pts advice. yearning for love and affection ?? ?
Okay, im talking to this older man hes in his late 40s. Im only 22. Right off the back I know im going in this with the wrong intentions. I was going to use him for his money . I know im wrong ! And this is not me ! But im also craving for attention love and affection from a man. I can admit it and say im lonely . I feel lonely. Im depressed . I know this. I haven't been in a relationship in 3 years. Part of the reason is I was still in love with my ex . When I got out of that relationship I got very depressed and I just wasent me anymore. Wen I lost my relationship I lost my best friends too all around the same time and then we started alldealing with family issues we,were having. I know I need therapy. And IM looking into it, but I needed some advice on wat I should do. Should I talk to this man ?? I just have a fear of not being loved honestly. Btw I Btwdo have mom and dad who I get love from all the time so i dont think thats my problem. I would love any real advice. Maybe someone who's gone through this.
3 Answers
- SweetEscapeLv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
If I were in my 20's and a guy was in his 40's, I don't think I could do what you were going to do. It's not in my nature and just wouldn't feel right. I would probably feel dirty too for being with someone who's just 10 years younger than my mum/dad.
However, in situations like this, you've got to be tactful and think of what is best for you right now.
If you REALLY need the money and you feel that this guy could give it to you, then try to get it. But, don't give him sex in return. Just be nice and friendly towards him and he may be the type of guy to treat you to things and give you money. But, if he wants anything more than your company, cut him off. Find another way to make money.
If you want someone to love, then try online dating sites, ask friends to hook you up and go out to clubs and bars to get guy's numbers. Start from there and see where you go.
Good luck!
- Mr. WhoeverLv 79 years ago
If you think at age 22 that you can fool a man in his late 40s, you're crazy. He's got you figured out already. Your chance of getting his money is close to zero. His chance of banging you for a while, then kicking you out of his life, are close to 100%.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Dont fear, you'll be adored quickly. Dont quit and dont force your self to love anyone. Take your time and enjoy being single. Ive been hurt thrice through my boyfriend, eventhough We're collectively for 3 years, It hurt alot for me too. But i do know that you can transfer on, simply provide it time and help your self. Time can heal affliction . Just right success! :)
