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I'm 23 and been seeing a 40 year old man. We been talking for a year now. During the past few months I been trying to get him to commit to me. We been out on only 1 date and I feel like I kinda forced him into that. When we went out we argued the whole time. He never takes me out. When he comes over its we always have sex and that's it. To the point where my mom even said that I was his side piece. We argue all the time about everything . Mostly about us and where this is going. He has disrespected me in an argument we had where he hit below the belt. He claims he loves me and doesn't want me to leave but he treats me like **** and I don't know why I stay. What I'm mostly hurt about is I just found out I caught a std (trich) from him . He told me he wasn't seeing anyone else but lied. He had females calling his phone in the morning when he stayed at my house and we argues about that. He finally told me he was messing with 2 other females but claimed we wasn't talking around that time which was bullshit. He stands me up all the time when he says he's gonna come see me. Just everything is bad. But I'm crying more and more lately about this . I'm constantly thinking how cld he do this to me. I'm angry very angry and have a lot build up inside me. I'm don't know what to do. He won't leave me alone he says. I feel so lost like I'm about to loose it. But he says everything will be okay. Why can't I just find it in me to move on ??!! I feel so depressed. Advice please ??

My last period started on April the 27th. I'm usually on for 5 days. It went off on May 1st. I haven't had my period yet. I due remember one day when I went to the bathroom and wiped there was light blood and I thought my period was about to come on but it never did. I feel like I been gaining weight lately. I feel really bloated and I get real nausea . I feel real sick after I eat anything and sometimes throw up a little. I feel like I just ate a big meal and my stomach is so full it's poked out. That's how I feel. I just feel real uncomfortable. I was wondering should I take a pregnancy test or wait. Sometimes my period is on time sometimes it's a little late like 2 or 3 days maybe 5 but I'm thinking it shld a been on by now. I have been having sex but I been using the pull out method. I'm only 23 and just not ready for a baby now.

I been seeing this guy for almost 3 months. Hes 39 im 23. Hes a very sweet guy , we do spend time together but not as often as i would like. He does come over my house and spends the night sonetimes. We have been intimate alot of times as well. I been starting to catch feelings for him but i dont know where we stand eith each other and im afraid if i tell him he might think im moving to fast or idk. Theres just somethings that really bother me when it comes to him. We never really went out on a date. He never invites me over his house. And he has a bad habit of saying im gonna call you later or i call you when i get t o work etc. And he never does . I just dont wanna get into deep and get dissapointed if we not on the same page. I dont know how to tell him? Any advice would help ?

I been talking to this guy for about a month now. Things are okay , but im not really sure what his intentions are yet. Even though I asked him he said hopefully toward something nice. That doesn't give me much but I took it anyway. But one thing that really bothers me and is starting to turn me off is he has a habit of saying I will call you in the morning , or I call you when I get settled at work, or he said I will call you later the list goes on but he never calls. We barley talk.on the phone at all. At first I thought maybe because he's older 34 that hes not the type to be on the phone but why keep saying your gonna call and don't ??? What should I do ?? Should I say something to him. I mean I hint to him when we do talk and I say yea you never call me but he says sorry and he be running around doing things. Advice would help ??

I met this guy around the end of December at a restaurant. He works there. We been talking ever since. He's 35 and on 23. He's so far a really nice guy. He's been over my house slot and even spent the night. We did have sex the first time he came over. I know big mistake but after he still stayed in contact and still was interested. He's been really making an effort to come see me when he can which I like even though our work schedules are diffrent. I haven't seen him I about 2 weeks but he always txts me to ask me if on okay and what not. He's met my parents and they like him. I know we haven't been talking for months but I just wanna know what his intentions are with me but I don't want to scare him off or rush but I just really wanna know so I don't put all my time into a guy who dosent want what I want. Been down that road before and its not a good feeling. So how could I ask him without making him feel pressured or forced ?? I was gonna tell him over the phone rather then send him a txt . Also his bday is coming up and I was gonna do something sweet for him I just don't wanna spend money on a guy that's not gonna lead to something. Advice would be helpful. Thanks

My boyfriend is still legally married to his wife. He told me that she won't sign the papers and that's why their still married. Its been constantly on my mind as to why she wont sign nd why hes not trying hard enough to get a divorce. everytime I bring his wife up he gets angry because he said there's nothing he can do. I honestly don't believe him and this is one of the reasons I need to walk away. He has kids with her also and pays her cell bill well they are actually on a family plan. I still believe they live together because I never been over his house. There's so many things wrong but I love him and its so hard to walk.away but I know I have too. I mean if a person does not want to sign the divorce papers in the state of PA.does that mean unless the ot her person signs your gonna be married till death ???

My period was supposed to come on Jan 20th . Yesterday when I went to the bathroom and wiped myself there was little blood on the tissue. I thought that my period was on so.I put a pad on and never bled since and nothing has been on my tissue since then. I have been having unprotected sex so I know there's a chance of pregnancy but im not ready for a child now being im only 23. I am having alot of leaking like discharge and I keep thinking its my period but I look and nothing. Last week I did have some cramping which was unusual because I dont cramp untill my period is actually on. I also have been eating alot. I do get like that a little before my period but this time I been eating and eating every chance i get and I gained 4 pounds in a week. Is there a chance I could be pregnant ?? If so should i take a preg test or wait to see if my period is gone come on ?? Thanks

I been dating this guy for about 4 months. Im having issues as to whether I should stay or end things with him. I feel like he always has excuses on why he's not spending time with me. He always says are work schedules get in the way too. I work overnight and he's a bus driver that works evening shift. But I feel like he dosent even try. He tells me to give him some time and I been waiting. He doesn't call me barely and when he does its late at night when he's outside. I question why he only can talk to me outside and he says he dosent like being on his phone in the house. Hes still married because he says his wife doesn't wanna sign the divorce papers. But my gut is telling me that his wife still lives with him and their kids. I asked him about it and says they don't live together and that he lives with his people. I recently found him talking to other females in his phone and we had a big argument about that. I love him and he said he loves me but im not happy. And im hurting.

Okay I stopped taking my birth controls about a 3 weeks ago. My period came on dec 1 and went off on Dec 7th. I had unprotected sex on the 10th where he came inside me and then also on the 15th which was a few days after my ovulation . Is there a chance I could get pregnant. I don't even really know if I was ovulating or not and because I stopped taking my birth control pills I don't want to end up getting pregnant. Is it possible to still even get pregnant when your not ovulating ?? Btw im not a teen im 23 and I know I should know these things already but I haven't really been worrying about things like this because I was on birth controls.

Im on birth control pills been on them for 6 months now. I had unprotected sex where he came in me and the next two days I forgot to take my pill. So I missed two pills. I woke up and took one just because I was scared I could get pregnant. I am having severe cramps and pain. Everything I eat I feel like I wanna vomit, and now im having brown discharge with some blood. I just feel awful. I took a pregnancy test but its negative. Should I take another one ?? I had sex Wednesday night so its only been like 4 days. Is it to soon to even get pregnant ?? My last period came on the 9the of November and only lasted about 4 days and it was on real light.

I been on birth control for a few months now. On Wednesday morning some time I took my pill. Im on low lestrin fe btw. On Wednesday night I had unprotected sex and he came inside me. The next two days Thursday and Friday I forgot to take my pill. I just totally forgot. When I took one this morning that's when I realized I forgot to take two. Im so scared I could become pregnant. I have been feeling sick and getting these stomach cramps so bad. Also this morning when I went to the bathroom and wiped myself there was light blood on my tissue . What does that mean ???? Please and help would be great ! Thank you

Im 22 and work full time overnights. I also pick up days alot of times and do alot of doubles 16 hour shifts. I didn't really have many friends before I started working but did have a few. Things happens and we just fell apart. I do have friends at my job but it's so hard to hang out when we work the same job and also are low staff. When I have a day off it's like im sleep the whole day so it's not a day off really. I feel very lonely and miserable but try not to show it to my family. It's hard for me to date because of my schedule and working overnights. I tried with this guy and it just didn't work . I feel very depressed. When im off every other weekend I just stay home and sleep and eat. I don't have a life I feel like. Im not happy. Has anyone felt like this ?? Any advice ??

Is it possible to have relationship or atleast date when I work overnight ?? I work full time 10pm to 6am. I live far from my job so it take me a hour to get to work because I have to get the bus which means I have to get up at 8pm to get to work by 10pm . I also work double shifts twice a week which is really hard but I do it cause I need the money . I never have time to do anything. If I have a day off Im sleep during the day and wake up around 12 midnight. I don't have a social life. Never really had many friends and was always a home body. But I feel more depressed then ever. I have the friends at my job but we all work different time it's hard for us to hang out. Im talking to this guy he likes me but the times he works and I work it's going to be hard to meet up unless I don't sleep . I know he gets a little annoyed and eventually will shift away. I just don't have the time. Any advice would help. Will I be single and lonely for ever ????

Okay. I was talking to this guy for about a month. He approached me . At first I wasent interested because he's older meaning 55 and im only 22 but he was attractive so I gave it a shot. During the time we been talking he rarely txt me or called. He would always make plans to meet up with me but somethin always comes up. Mind you his work schedule was from 4am to 5 pm. I work overnight from 10pm to 6am. So I get he would be tired. But this man couldn't possibly be that damn busy not to call me or txt me the while day right ?? I was getting mixed signals because when we would see each other on the bus he would be all up on me and talk dirty to me but then I won't hear from him unless I txt him. Now his schedule changed and he doesn't drive the bus I get on now. I haven't heard from him not once in over a week. Im pissed off about it and just wanna know why. I know in might think he's married . He did say he was before. he said that he doesn't wanna waste my time but what does he call this ??? Am I wrong to txt him and curse him out ???

Okay. I was talking to this guy for about a month. He approached me . At first I wasent interested because he's older meaning 55 and im only 22 but he was attractive so I gave it a shot. During the time we been talking he rarely txt me or called. He would always make plans to meet up with me but somethin always comes up. Mind you his work schedule was from 4am to 5 pm. I work overnight from 10pm to 6am. So I get he would be tired. But this man couldn't possibly be that damn busy not to call me or txt me the while day right ?? I was getting mixed signals because when we would see each other on the bus he would be all up on me and talk dirty to me but then I won't hear from him unless I txt him. Now his schedule changed and he doesn't drive the bus I get on now. I haven't heard from him not once in over a week. Im pissed off about it and just wanna know why. I know in might think he's married . He did say he was before. he said that he doesn't wanna waste my time but what does he call this ??? Am I wrong to txt him and curse him out ???

On my way to work these 2 guys tried to talk to me. They were flirting which was cute, but I wasent interested at that moment. So when they asked did I have a boyfriend I said yes . Now the one guy was really feelin me I could tell cause he kept talking to me asking for my number so I have it to him and told him we can be friends. Now the guy has been calling me and texting me. He's so sweet. He wanna take me out but he said he dosent wanna overstep his boundaries since I have a bf. But I don't.! I hate that I lied. I wanna give him a chance but I already messed up and lied. Wat should I do ?? Btw I'm 22 he's 28.

Okay I been talking to this man for about a month now. We met on the bus cause he drives the bus . At first I wasent interested but then I said I will give him a chance. Now mind you im 22 and he is 55. I know it's a big age difference but I figured I try something new . Okay. He works from 4am to 5 pm and lives an hour away from his home . I work overnight. My problem is I get he's busy with work I understand that. But you mean to tell me you can't call or text me at all ??? The only time he will txt is if i text him. Then he might txt back. He goes on break and never calls or txts. He would always say we can meet this time but then always has some type of excuse. We talked about him knowing I need attentions and that he likes me but he's always busy from work. which I understood. But what's really starting to get under my skin is the fact that when we see each other on the bus he's all up on me. Telling me he wanna make love to me and so on. But then I don't hear from him till the next time I work. Mind you he's off on weekends and im off every other weekend . Should I just leave his *** alone ?? . I do like the man cause he is nice but he's not giving me attention that I want. He's supposed to be trying but ain't trying hard enough.

I will be 22 on the 25th but don't have no one to hang out with at all. I used to have close friends but we grew apart, and some I had to just leave alone cause I couldn't trust them. Been to myself for a while. Talk to a few ppl on my job but we can't go out cause how are schedules are it's hard. My family doesn't really have money so if we go out I would be paying for everything. And I pay for everything as it is. Im feeling really depressed. Do you have any suggestion on wat I could do by myself ?? Already got my hair done. I know I will be getting a few tattoos as well but that's it. Has anybody been through this before ?? Advice and suggestions would be nice. Thanks

Okay, im talking to this older man hes in his late 40s. Im only 22. Right off the back I know im going in this with the wrong intentions. I was going to use him for his money . I know im wrong ! And this is not me ! But im also craving for attention love and affection from a man. I can admit it and say im lonely . I feel lonely. Im depressed . I know this. I haven't been in a relationship in 3 years. Part of the reason is I was still in love with my ex . When I got out of that relationship I got very depressed and I just wasent me anymore. Wen I lost my relationship I lost my best friends too all around the same time and then we started alldealing with family issues we,were having. I know I need therapy. And IM looking into it, but I needed some advice on wat I should do. Should I talk to this man ?? I just have a fear of not being loved honestly. Btw I Btwdo have mom and dad who I get love from all the time so i dont think thats my problem. I would love any real advice. Maybe someone who's gone through this.

I went to the hospital wed. I was in so much pain from my lower back to abdominal and pelvic pain. The doctor said I had lil blood in my urine, that caused concern but didnt want to do a ct scan on my ovaries because of the radiation and me being 21 years old I guess being young. It could be kidney stones she said too, but she said that tjey would treat it as a uti and since I had a fever they upped the antibiotics which is cipro 500mg. Im having all the side effects from this med. Nausea , dizzyness, pain in groin still, and more. I feel so weak . I dnt have an appetite either and wen I smell food it makes me very nausea as if im going to throw up. I have to go to work tomorrow. What should I do ??? Should I go back to the hospital ?? I dnt have insurance yet thats why I havent been to the doctor.