wife dose not want sex?

She should see her doctor for a thorough checkup, and you should have a secret. conversation with the doctor before she goes. Many things can kill libido. high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, & hormonal imbalance to name a few. Some of these are very serious. . Most are easily controlled. Once controlled, libido returns. If she checks out OK, then think beyond the bedroom. We have been married 45 yrs. Most of our sex has been of the fun and playful kind, not the candlelight and music kind. Next time you take a shower, wear just the towel around the house for a while. See how long it takes before she pulls it off. Or ask her to dry your back, or come into the shower and scrub your back. Cook breakfast in just boxers, then sit her on your lap and feed her breakfast. Snuggle up on the couch when she is watching TV, then start unbuttoning something on you or on her. Have a naked video night where you both sit naked on the couch, popcorn and drinks, and watch something you like (doesn't have to be porn). Have naked breakfast on Saturday mornings. Don't forget car sex. Scout out a place when you are alone, then one night when you are driving home, go to the spot.. Pull out some battery powered candles for the dashboard. We had a book called "101 sexual positions" and a jar with pieces of paper numbered 1 to 101. We would pick a number and try that position. Have sex in every room, on, under, or beside every piece of furniture. Try sex on the stairs. After you have done a few of these, challenge her to come up with something. But most of all HAVE FUN!!!!

Depends, did she do it over the 19 years or did this just begin because its one of three reasons: emotional, mental, or medical. IS she pissed at you about something from a long time ago and she's holding a grudge (maybe its something YOU don't even know SHE knows)-Has she gone through overwhelming stress as a result of losing someone or from work-if none of this stuff maybe a doc can answer some questions about hormones.

It is a function reversal of sorts. When the connection is young, she's anxious to please you and did some thing you liked. You mostly weren't too worried whether or not or no longer she was once getting off. Now she's simplest serious about her own pleasure and might supply a sh!T about your wants. Hopefully which you could speak to her and discover how one can make sex higher for her. My wife refuses to speak about it.

Try marriage counseling, she could have been abused as a child,

or harmed a young teenager, many women couple sex of any type with

assault. A husband needs to be patient if he loves her they can work this out.

Any thumbs down need to read up on the subject this isn't an uncommon thing

and has nothing to do with how much they love one another nor how 'good' he is...

unfortunately in todays society if its not happening you dump the partner and move

on like she has no dignity this is how shallow society has become.

My feeling is, that if sex is important to you and she isn't willing over a long period of time, then you have two choices: have an affair or dump her. Both will actually lead to the same end result.

Mistress. You need one. It's your wife's fault.

u pissed her off, my friend. beware - the next step after abstinence is REVENGE. do u know in which form women usually accomplish it? in the form of SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE ELSE

Try some new moves on her next time?

Obviously you suck in bed.

Maybe she's cheating. Trust me, if she doesn't want sex, its your fault.. Because you're not good at pleasing her. Is your penis small ? Do you come too fast ??

Maybe you should try giving her oral