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should i be friends with this girl or nt?

Ok so theres this girl that i guess im friends with. And shes really bossy, shes always telling me to buy her stuff, (including dangle earrings and a vera bradley cell phone case). Last year she cyberbullied two of my other friends (threatening texts) so obviously they do not have the best opinion of her. They think i should be mad at her and i guess in some respectsi should be. she has taken my phone and lost it (but she found it pretty quick i just had to beg her to look) and she takes sparring so she always wants to practice with me. The problem is that i dont do any form of martial arts. Shes always showing me how she blocks and she kinda likes to see me fail at blocking her. She accidentally punched me in the nose once (but it barely even bled so no big deal right?) she also accidentally punched me in the jaw once but it barely hurt so its ok right? And she also drags me places by the hair a lot which gets painful and annoying but i can deal. And she sometimes threatens me but i don't think she means it. She insults me a lot but usually not too bad. Although sometimes it does get offensive. For example, when we met, she introduced me to bands like blood on the dance floor and black veil brides. Now she hates both and she constantly calls me a freak for still liking them. I also recently got scene hair, and i thought it looked good, but she said that it looks really bad on me. She is also one of those kids that gets almost whatever piercing she wants, so shes also constantly bragging. I have another friend who thinks shes a ***** and thinks i shouldn't hang out with her. Although she never actually did anything to her, just me sometimes. Back to what i was saying earlier, she constantly asks for favors, and most of the time i do it for her. But her requests have gotten.....more expensive. See, she's not poor, but i go to a pretty expensive private school and she's not quite as well off as everyone else. Now, she somehow thinks i'm rich, both of my parents are teachers- you do the math. So she keeps asking me for things that involve lying to my parents and spending their money. And by the way, i already am lying to my parents by hanging out with her. My mom met her once at the mall and my mom decided that i shouldn't hang out with her. It was a little judgmental of my mom but she was wearing a pin that said "im not antisocial i just hate u". She also keeps telling me to do things that are kind of against school rules. And she wanted to pierce my navel for me. And when i said no she said "can i still poke the hole so i can get more piercing experience?" And by the way she wanted to do it in the school bathroom. And she wanted to do my cartilage too. She thinks she can order me around. How can i show her that i'm not her slave and should i stay friends with her at all?

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  • 9 years ago
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    "She thinks she can order me around."

    I got news for you--she is ordering you around. She's a bully.

    "How can i show her that i'm not her slave and should i stay friends with her at all?"

    Avoid her like the plague. No replies to texts or calls; don't talk to her; walk away from her. You'll be doing both of you a favor.

  • 9 years ago

    I would very mad her. Don't give her anything, you really shouldn't be her friend because she isn't a good friend. She wants you to buy her stuff but she insults you. She hits you, one time I saw two friends messing around and one of them accidentally hit her and a little blood came out and she was pissed but the other one felt really felt bad. She should encourage you not bring you down. Trust me, don't be friends with this girl. You don't need her. She's a mean bully, she's not a good person, stay away from her!!! Talk to a counselor or just go straight to the principal. Your mom is right,I know you think your mom is just saying that but she's definitely right. Don't let her touch your body with anything, get help as soon as possible. Not. Not. Not. Not. Not. You have other friends, don't let this one ruin your parade, don't let her piss on your sunshine. If she continues this, AFTER you tell someone. Tell off the *****.

  • 9 years ago

    She sounds like an AWFUL person honey! Don't put yourself down like that by hanging out with her. You are too good to let somebody bully you. She thinks she can get whatever she wants out of people and she is way mistaken! Wait until she gets out in the real world. You can't treat somebody like that or you are gonna get your butt whooped. She will learn real quick. You just need to ignore her and move on. Don't even bother sending a message or talking to her because she should know what she did wrong. There are way too many people in the world to be friends with a jerk. You can find somebody that shares your interests and is nice to you and wants to respect you and who can have more sense than to beg for you to buy them things. Tell your mom if you are worried about her doing something bad to you when you do this. Completely forget about her because she is NOT worth dealing with. She's only gonna give you drama and get you in trouble. Good luck babe!

  • 9 years ago

    She sounds like a complete jerk:|

    I don't know what you should do about it..but I only answered this because I wanted to tell you that I love your avatar thingy..

    Source(s): ronnie <3 Sorry :p
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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    youre friend sounds like a HUGE jerk and a mean person. Get away frm her QUICK!!

    answer my question! its called "should i end this friendship best aswer gets 10 points!''

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Drop the ***** like a sack of potatoes.

  • 9 years ago

    no she sounds crazy, dumb and weird. your mom don't want you hanging out with her, listen to your mom. moms know best. time to start hanging out with new people.

  • 9 years ago

    yep, just ditch her

  • 9 years ago

    please ditch her AND get your stuff back.

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