Should I believe him or just stop seeing him?

that's kind of a tough one. it could be he's still sleeping with her and in that way giving her the impression that there is still something to their relationship, which would be his fault. or it could be that seeing as they have a child together, she feels somewhat territorial over him even if the only relationship they have is based of their child. i've known a lot of women who feel that way about their ex that they had children with. either way it's a sticky situation and if you don't want to be a part of it, then don't be. why be in a relationship where you're always wondering? people date to find someone for themselves, not for friends and family. it's not okay to ignore the fact that a man you're dating could be sleeping with another woman. and if you don't want to date someone who already has children, then that's your business. don't let people guilt trip you into relationships that don't satisfy you.

The best thing to do if you have any questions or insecurities about your relationship with him, is to directly ask him, and not involved anyone else. Because you are liable to hear anything and everything that they don't know about. Another thing is that he wouldn't appreciate being the one in question without you talking about to him first, to speak for himself. Personally, his ex has a problem letting go. Some do. Some think they will own him as long as they have a child together. that's her problem, only his problem if he gives in to her about anything, unless it directly involves the child. A problem that he will have is trying to have another relationship because of her trying to not let him, because she can't make herself be happy, and she depends on others to do so. As long as she is in another relationship then she won't bother him about that. When she isn't, she's one of the neediness women you will meet. She becomes the drama queen, it's always something with her, and she will be a pain in the rear, until she is with someone else. In all honesty, the child would be better off with his father, but unfortunately, that isn't what the court has set up. She isn't stable. Thats all I can say. I wouldn't put it past her to try to coax him back into a relationship, of some sort, using the child, if necessary, since he is so young, but I doubt that it would work. She's just more of a pain than anything. All you can do is let the man know that she is at it again. After that let him know that you are aware that she isn't stable. Let him know that if at anytime he wants to get back with her, or be with anyone else, all you want is for him to be honest enough to let you know this first. After that I;m sure whatever it is he has to say will be more comforting and true to you than what anyone else will ever say about it.

Tell him how you really feel and ask him what he thinks and to be totally honest with you . I think if you kind of specifically bring it up it might push him away, so let your heart speak . If you really want to continue with him be positive and take things calmly .

Instead of trying to Facebook piece this together try talking to him.

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