I struggle to reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.?

You may be getting a condition called Delayed Ejaculation. Google it.

Has your girlfriend ever had a sexual partner with a penis size that would put farm animals to shame or tried out fisting in the past? If she is a little loose then it will compromise your stimulation and result in the need to use your imagination to get the job done. Also you seem to have fitness issues that need work. You seriously should be fit enough to do the job even if you take a while. If you are exhausted then it will compromise your arousal anyway. Finally if you repartner down the track and have the same problem then it has nothing to do with her looseness and you may have delayed ejaculation.

You sound pretty normal to me. I would never reach an orgasm unless I imagined something different than having straight forward sex with my girlfriend. I just assumed all guys were the same. I think u are right though. Experience is what u need. It . As I have got older, and u go out with women who have had kids, you find that its much harder as the friction is much less. Still you learn what position works. Maybe one of you likes the other to talk dirty. My partner actually orgasms very fast if I talk as though its another woman. All this is pretty normal as you spend years with each other. U could go for 10 hrs and still never orgasm if u dont discuss what turns u on.

If your using a condom that is most likely your problem. I struggled until I got the right size (so try different brands, styles and sizes). If you can find thinner condoms (thinner isnt smaller just means thinner latex material) they help with the feeling too.

Also thinking of pleasing your girlfriend helps as once you hear her enjoying it you can relax more which helps. Good luck

Sigmund Freud said this is what happens when what your really want is someone of your own sex.

However, perhaps you are circumcised and have lost some two thirds of the nerve endings in your penis through the operation. Callusing may also have set in and (who knows?) perhaps even keratinization.

kinky talk, a detailed talk of what you'd like to do to her in a hungry passion can get a woman wet quick and improve her orgasm and your's too. Practice makes perfect, get to know what makes her tick and what she doesn't like in the sack, it's like fine tuning your performance to match hers till you both are synchronized perfectly in wan't and needs and perfect pleasure.. that's when the sex is at it' peak and you both end up becoming sex maniacs when you two get together.

SHE MAY BE NOT KNOWING ABOUT THIS ALL BEING NEW IN THIS TRADE.TO REACH A WOMEN A MAN SHOULD BE TACTICAL. LYE DOWN FACING EACH OTHER ON LEFT OR RIGHT SLIDE. SQUEEZE HIS MINOLTA BY THE HEAD OF COCK HARDLY AND RAPIDLY. DON,T RIDE OVER. HAVE PASSIONS. I HOPE SHE WILL BENEFIT. SHE IS YET TO START WHEN SHE WILL BE FULLY AROUSED AFTER SOME MONTHS OR YEARS. SHE WILL COME TO KNOW OF IT AUTOMATICALLY.AND IF U STRUGGLE FOR EJECT DO MASTURBATE AT LAST.U FEEL GOOD

Could be your girlfrinds not 'tight' enough for you, try getting her to exercise her pelvic floor muscles every day(its the muscle she uses to stop urinating mid-flow), do it together and make fun as to not embaress her. Also dont start out to fast, start sliw and stead then build up speed as it feels nicer and nicer.

You may have low sensitivity

but also you may be worrying too much.

How about concentrating on gf's orgasm

and see if this relaxes you and you can c um too.

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you been masturbating to porn for years and you think you just lost your virginity?