Problem About My Future: What should I Do/Say?

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Good day angels and devils of Y! Answers! I'm here to ask you opinions about the decision that i'm going to make for my life.

I'm a college student, 19 years old, and currently studying dental medicine.

I have a very big problem, I'm started to doubt about my decision when I passed the exam for dental medicine program, because i don't feel that this is the life that i want to live for the rest of my life. My parents knew me since I was a child that I have a strong passion for music, and i want to study music, I just chose dentistry because, most of my relatives are dentist, and I already spent 2 years in pre-dental program. I don't want to disappoint my parents so I continued dental medicine, but now i finished one semester again, enrollment is now open, I really don't want to continue anymore. I feel like I just want to kill myself than to disappoint my parents and my relatives. I want to perform in front of many people and appreciate the music. I play flute, guitar, drums and piano.I don't want to be sitting on a chair, waiting for patients to come and asking me to treat them. I told to my mom once, that I don't want to continue anymore, but she cried and she said that I'm gonna ruin my life if I don't study, so i didn't say anymore but to enroll for dental medicine course. If I enrolled to music school, i would take piano as my major program.

I want to know what am I going to do and what am I going to tell to my parents.

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The thing is, if you become a dentist or whatever you're studying for you could easily open up you're own business or work for someone else without a problem. But on the other hand, everyone seems to be getting in the music business these days. the only way they make it is if their daddy is famous, or unless they win some big show like x factor, american idol, or Americas got talent. its sad because some people really do want to be musicians, but there are so many other people trying to do that too that you really have to be some big shot. i personally think you should continue doing the dental stuff and persue music as an extra activity, to see how things work out. instead of dropping everything and going to that.

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Dude, you're 16. I assure you, you'll experience the same way about another chick very quickly. and then yet another. and then yet another. I received't choose you for the completed age huge difference challenge. I for one do no longer imagine its disgusting or weird and wonderful, or perhaps with the actuality that. its basically biology. right that's the priority. in case you tell absolutely everyone about it or attempt to act on it, you'll maximum in all probability be humiliated in a unmarried way or yet another. imagine about it. what if some human being who likes to clutter with you receives wind of this? bypass on, brother.

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Problem About My Future: What should I Do/Say?

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