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(Girls) Why is it assumed?

Why is it assumed that guys are supposed to approach you if they like you/find you attractive?

It is not our jobs, it hasn't been this way in society for 100 years. So why is it assumed if we don't come up to you at every possible moment that you consider yourself "not approachable"? Where did this vast misconception even begin that girls aren't supposed to approach a guy and tell them they like them?

This has gotten to the point where if I know a girl is expecting me to ask her out or tell her I like her she's taken completely off the radar for not being able to act for herself.

Am I wrong here? Have I gone further off the rocker than I think?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    you kind of sound like a lesbian who has a problem remembering the meaning of guy and girl.

  • 8 years ago

    It's not that she's expecting you to ask her, it's the fact that a girl still likes that feeling that you care enough to ask her. If you really liked her why wouldn't you ask is the question you should be asking yourself.

  • 9 years ago

    I think you should be eliminating choices on a less superficial basis, otherwise you're no better than her.

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