why do i find forbidden things more interesting?

Human nature.

~Dr. B.~

Humans are often prone to masochistic tendencies at times. Basically we find pleasure from pain inflicted upon ourselves (as opposed to sadism - inflicted on others) Forbidden things come with a possibility of danger/punishment which excites the individual into testing the limits of the obsession.

The 'love' in romance is also mostly based on this idea. Pain inflicted on the characters every time they feel despair at some obstacle is shared with the reader/voyeur and releases a pain/pleasure response. Then every time their is hope it is usually crushed by another obstacle until the final outcome of the story is resolved. Many romance stories contain characters that are destined to be apart and yet somehow get together at the end (unless they don't i guess). This struggle with attraction versus life ultimately leads to emotional turmoil. It's sort of like a roller coaster ride that gets your heart pumping and your adrenaline pulsating through your body for a while. The high doesn't last forever though.

I doubt Literature has anything to do with it. Everyone likes forbidden stuff. Risk and pleasure often go hand in hand.

But there are consequences to taking risks. You need to realise your attraction to forbidden stuff needs to be confined to the realm of fantasy (and yes writing stories can be one way to do this). In reality, running away with some guy is often downright dangerous and stealing someone's boyfriend hurts other people and makes you a bad person.

I think you read too much teenage books/ watch too many teen movies and tv shows/ are influenced one way or another. You're very strongly affected by them. You like the IDEA of forbidden objects/people but really, you want a nice guy that you really actually like for himself and not for the idea of him. You are living in your fantasy. Snap out of it.

And no, you are not the only one. You are not special because you like forbidden things. We all crave the thrill. I used to feel that way also until I realized my unrealistic dreams about this were dragging down other things that I really care about.

Shaytan leads us to do incorrect issues. in retrospect that is glaring a good evil grow to be dedicated on the day known via Bukhari, at the same time as the Blessed One observed grow to be disobeyed, tormented ....Oh, how he suffered to handbook this ungrateful and reckless Ummah. would Allah SWT reward him with the promised Maqam Mahmud. Sahih Bukhari Arabic-English quantity 9 hadith huge style 468 and quantity 7 hadith 573: at the same time as the time of the shortcoming of life of the Prophet approached at the same time as there have been some adult males contained in the residing house, and between them grow to be 'Umar Ibn al-Khattab, the Prophet reported: "Come close to enable me write for you a writing and then you will be able to by no ability bypass off beam." 'Umar reported: "The Prophet is heavily ill (hizyan- mentally incapicitated), and think ofyou've got were given the Qur'an, so Allah's e book is sufficient for us." the human beings contained in the residing house differed and disputed. a number of them reported, "Come close to so as that Allah's Apostle would write for you a writing and then you will be able to no longer bypass off beam," at the same time as the others reported what 'Umar reported. at the same time as they made a lot noise and quarreled a great deal in the front of the Prophet, angered he reported to them, "bypass away and leave me."

Write stories.

You can enjoy the forbidden in romance stories that you write.

You can write them as yourself being the girl in the romance or someone else.

She sat on the ledge of her open window and watched him lifting the furniture from the truck into the house, his skin dripping in sweat and his curly dark hair getting into his eyes.

(((or)))

I felt his lips nibbling at my neck and tried my best to stay hidden behind the tree in my front yard but I felt sure that my sister would see me if I relaxed and enjoyed the most erotic moment of my life.

"Damn it!" ... I whispered under my breath ...

"Don't stop me now baby, I want all of you and tonight we are going to make love right here under this tree" laughed Ricky as he slid his tongue up the side of my throat and held me closer than I've ever been held before.

(((lol)))

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