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Why is it hard to truly forgive someone?
Me and my girlfriend fought pretty hard. I yelled at her, I screamed at her, I punched my mom, not her (I know, right?Am I stupid or what?-different issue) Now my girlfriend is mad at me. She said she forgives me, but she wont see me for a month. She wants me for me to change my attitude first, and then I can see her again. If she said she forgives me, why wont she see me? I'm currently in the middle of rehab, I've made a lot of progress. I really2 miss her. It really hurts not being able to see her.
ps: we already have a daughter
If we dont see each other, isn't it harder for us to reconcile things?
We text everynow and then, but the text is not like what it used to be.
It's like we're totally two different people now.
I'm scared that she's going to drift away from me
4 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
Well it's obvious that she is still hurting. Just because someone forgives doesn't mean they forget. She might just need time to calm down from everything before she can see you, and when she does she will be more calm about it. And to answer the trust question it's simple what I just said its because it still hurts. The hurt will be there for some time. My dad always says trust is like a peice of paper, once crumpled it will never be the same again. So the trust will come back with time but it will never be as it was.
Source(s): I myself am a women - 9 years ago
She might not actually forgive you but wanted you off her back, so she can have more time to process it without interference, and think about how it has fully effected her\will effect her. And also thinks you need some time to think and change, away from her. I would leave her alone for awhile.
- 9 years ago
Trust is like a piece of paper. Once you crumple it up.. It never lays smooth again.. The best you can do is straighten it out the best you can.
