How can I help my friend??

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Hi me and my friend are both 16. She is in love with this guy but this guy has a girlfriend. She has never had a boyfriend but she has liked countless guys and recently in May she fell for this guy she kept getting over him but every time she did something would make her fall in love with him. They are both good friends and they are with each other in tennis but not in school. They are really cute together they have an absolutely similar personality they both are silly and clumsy and funny and they think the same way. They keep wearing the same colour clothes and basically they are cute together. He has been with his girlfriend for almost a year and my friend is still in love with him and she has refused to settle for any other guy. He is really nice to her they laugh a lot and spend a lot of time together he smiles at her a lot and i occassionally catch him looking at her. So how can I help my friend? Should I tell her to move on or is there hope?

Update:

She asked for my help. I completely respect her privacy in general

Elizabeth · Answer

For the time being, tell her to keep being friendly, but leave him alone as far as showing/telling him she loves him. Respect him and his gf while they're together, or a big mess of problems could turn up. In the meantime, encourage her to find other guys. It may be that seeing her with someone else convinces him that, "Crap, but I wanted to be with her!" If not, no harm is done, she hopefully has found a great guy to help her get over him, they remain friends, and everyone is happy. (Wow, that sounds cheesy, but I hope you see my general point.)

Jeff · Answer

dont be a buttinski. it may well be they could end up being together. let the process of life work unimpeded.

Anonymous · Answer

soon or far it.s happend separate.if you say to him that  is dissconnected. she is thinked you are jeles.because it isnot love however abuse.

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