MusicalAngel

I'm 16 almost 17 and I've only ever really been in love with one guy. I fell for my guy best friend and he didn't like me back because he said he gave up on relationships after his ex.

I feel like I can't like anyone ever again. A lot of nice guys have liked me but none of them were my type. Some of them were just looking for the idea of having a girlfriend. and the problem with some of them is that they're younger than me, I just am not really comfortable with idea of being with someone younger no offense to anyone.

I don't fall for the jerks or anything like that I actually do end up liking the sweet silly type, but somehow after this guy no one seems to compare. I'm really worried I'll never find anyone.

This isn't me complaining, I'm worried, because I don't fall for people easily and this guy really broke me because I loved him for almost 2 years. Why is it that with a lot of other nice guys liking me I still can't fall for anyone else? Is this normal? I genuinely don't feel anything anymore except for him but I try and suppress it because I know he'll never feel the same.

Just please help me. There's another guy that likes me and I'm really tired of hurting people unintentionally. I just can't be with someone or date someone I'm not attracted or have feelings for. My standards aren't incredibly high. I just don't know what's wrong with me.

Please help.

Thank you everyone in advance.

I am a 16 year old girl i'm average height but still short people say i have a good body because i am athletic and i have a baby face people say i am cute a lot. I try to be nice to everyone and even if i don't like someone i'm always polite and respectful.

So i am friends with a lot of guys and some of them i don't find attractive i dont mean to sound shallow or anything but i tend to fall for the cute good looking guys but if their personality isn't good then i won't find them attractive anymore.

the guys who like me or flirt with me clearly are ones that i have no attraction to at all but sometimes they are really sweet and nice to me. And when they tell me they like me i end up turning them down because i am not attracted to them.

The guys i like are usually attractive, not perfect or models but just cute. For example i was and probably still am in love with this really really cute attractive guy and his personality as well is amazing. but guys like that usually don't like me! I attract the ones i have practically nothing in common with and i don't find them attractive at all.

Is this normal? because i end up feeling really bad when these guys ask me out and i don't feel the same way back. I don't know why but if a guy isn't cute or good looking i immediately just friendzone him. Don't get me wrong rarely sort of attractive guys like me but they don't have a good personality.

So any advice? Please don't tell me i am shallow or conceited i swear i'm not i want to know why does this happen why do i only fall for these guys who are attractive with a great personality but not the guys who are unattractive and some have a good personality also?

i am 16 i have 2 lobe piercings in each ear. The first ones i got when i was a baby but the second piercing i got last year, they didn't hurt at first they just stung but for like a day they kinda hurt but then after a few days they were okay but they stayed swollen for the first week. So i have an average pain threshold but i guess i have sensitive skin.

So I'm thinking of getting a belly piercing done professionally so does it hurt on a scale of 1-10? and swelling if there is any?how do i clean it and care stuff like that ?

Any advice, tips?

Thankss :)xx

last week on wednesday i told my crush of 1 year that i liked him and he told me that he's done with relationships because of his ex gf she messed him up. he told me not to change because i'm still his best friend. I constantly have to see him and it really hurts and every time i start to think of getting over him or i'm halfway there he starts a chat with me or he likes a photo of me. Like on saturday i had to see him in the morning because we had a soccer match and we're on the same team it was awkward when we said hi but after that it was alright though we didnt have the chance to talk much. Later that day i was just starting to let him go and for the first time ever he starts the chat and acts all cute.

All my friends tell me you're going to be fine nd yeah i will be with time but he's my best friend so seeing him kills me...

All i'm really asking is any advice?

Hi me and my friend are both 16. She is in love with this guy but this guy has a girlfriend. She has never had a boyfriend but she has liked countless guys and recently in May she fell for this guy she kept getting over him but every time she did something would make her fall in love with him. They are both good friends and they are with each other in tennis but not in school. They are really cute together they have an absolutely similar personality they both are silly and clumsy and funny and they think the same way. They keep wearing the same colour clothes and basically they are cute together. He has been with his girlfriend for almost a year and my friend is still in love with him and she has refused to settle for any other guy. He is really nice to her they laugh a lot and spend a lot of time together he smiles at her a lot and i occassionally catch him looking at her. So how can I help my friend? Should I tell her to move on or is there hope?

In my dream I died but m spirit was still around I remember that my spirit hugged my mum and was talking to her by writing stuff down and I was a cheerful spirit but towards the end of the dream I tried going back into my body. I'm reallllly scared please help me.

I'm not this user I'm just a friend of this user. Well, I'm 15 and i live with my mother and I'm really scared of losing her...she takes sleeping pills to sleep even if it's just a nap and she is always depressed she has had a breakdown and she's really unhappy because she's trying to divorce my step dad but he won't let her and she has work problems etc...the doctor has come over a few times to give her something when she gets a nervous breakdown he gives her these injections and I always hear her screaming in pain. Im really scared of losing her I dont have anybody else Im an only child. I want to tell her this is affecting me but i don't know how I need to give her a wake up call so please how can I do that. Thanks

I'm not this user, just a friend. Today is my birthday and its really late now. I live with my mum, my dad lives abroad with his wife and daughter. Both my parents forgot my birthday!! People I didnt know wished me a happy birthday but my parents forgot. My mum even shouted at me today for a very stupid reason and she's still mad! I even told her a lot of people wished me happy birthday today and guess what she did, she looked at the computer for 3 minutes no answer then replied okay! What the hell how can they?! For my mum's birthday i invited all her friends and i baked for 5 hours straight and i managed to make her a new outfit myself! As for my dad I e-mailed him, I called I even made him a short happy birthday video which took hours!! because he never gets the mail i sent him but i told him when he comes to visit his gift will be waiting!

They both forgot my birthday! I cant believe it

Okay so i'm 5'3.5"-5'4" and i range between 46.5 kilos to 47 i'm a petite so i'm not so underweight i do retain some extra skin on my tummy and some fat on my thighs, i have not been dieting just trying to eat healthy now if i don't gain weight she's going to stop me from horse riding! I can't gain weight! I was a fat child and now when i see pictures of myself 2 years ago I swear i was obese!! Please help me how can i tell her i'm not dieting she says "you're dieing to lose weight" not true i eat cupcakes, chocolate, i ate half a nutella jar but i'm very active!

hey guys, my birthday is in a month's time and i was thinking I could have something to do with new york but like casual like with the big hats that say NY on them and it will be colourful.

My question is...

How can i ask my mum about the party? We had kind of a tragic reason not to celebrate my birthday last year and we didnt so i'm really worried if i ask this year she'll say the same things so i need a clever way of asking her, if i get a B in calculus (dyslexia) it will be an opportunity, so help me with that.

How should i dress?

if you have any other suggestions that would be great!

My friend's mum was killed yesterday, tomorrow is the funeral however my mum does not want me to go but i've known this girl for 3 years and people say "in times like these you know who your real friends are" and if i don't go i'll feel so bad! Please help what can I do, i asked a friend to help me convince my mum but her phone is off!

My friend has a crush on her ex bf, her first one. She likes him again, she didnt want me to know but i found out and she knows i know. When he broke up with her last year he exposed their relationship and made her seem awful and she was really heartbroken and she didnt speak to him for a long time. Now they are friends and she likes him again but i seriously hate him after what he did to her because he's a jerk literally! She tells him something that he shouldnt tell anyone else and he tells it to the person she was talking about and he adds parts from his mind! He always insults me, (I do the same back) Because i seriously think he is not nice. I have a feeling that this second chance she is willing to give him isn't a good thing because he broke her heart brutally before and i know this guy, so he can do it again! Its annoying because he takes her away from me even when i am sitting right next to her she gives me her back and talks to him the whole lesson! I tell her to shut up constantly but she goes quiet for 10 seconds then continues and luckily a guy on our table moved or else i would have been sitting somewhere else because she wanted him next to her and for most of the day i'll be sitting alone bored in the back of the room! I just hate him because he's awful to me and he was awful to her and me and her have been best friends for 6 years now! on friday after school she invited me over to her house i have tennis later but my training is near her house and she wants me to come and him! Because her parents say no boys unless a girl is there (she doesn't count) because when he came over to her house in the summer they made out and her parents got really mad. So now because of him she is using me, I tried respecting her desicion of liking him and told her i'll see if i can come but i can do it i can't the guy is just seriously annoying me, his very existence in the same area as me annoys me! i don't speak to him unless she's there then he insults me and i of course do the same to him because i am not going to not defend myself!

There's a chance that he says yes and he sees her tomorrow but that means it is at her house and i have to go too! Please Help! Thanks!

I'm at a passing grade in maths and i am a tennis player, my mother played tennis so she finds important that i train. My maths tutor at home wants to come at 11:00 AM, my training is at 10:00 and an hour and there is traffic around the area where the tennis club is! I tried doing everything i can, i asked my teacher if he can come at least 15 minutes later he said no and he said he'll try to come the next day so everything was sorted then i found out he called my mother and she got mad and i am not going to train tomorrow! My friend is a horserider which is another sport I do and the stables are in the club where i do tennis and i haven't seen my horse in 2 weeks and i miss him like crazy, saturday is my only training day and i was sick last week! So any ideas how to deal with this teacher because this is the second time he does this to me i tried to do everything i even offered to let him come as late as possible or early but no i can't cancel his lesson its either his way or the highway i could literally shoot him right now! Please give me serious answers I want to train and i desperately miss my horse!! what can i do, i dont mind if you say piss him off subtly because he goes crying every little whim to my mother who's main interest is school.

Thanks In Advance

Hey I am not this user I'm a friend of this user. Okay I like this guy I used to see him like a lot because we are both in the same sports club and its a very small club, he is older than me by a year and some months. He disappeared for a long time and he recently began to show up but barely and i think we kinda faded away! Now everytime I see him all we say is hi and I'm usually the one who says hi! when he went away I realised I liked him. I don't know what to do! My friend suggested I facebook message him but i think it would be too unexpected! Please help me!

PS: I dont have his number.

the high school dance is in 2 weeks and a bit i never went to the middle school dances so i'm not sure if i should go to this one. my bestfriend is like begging me to go and i told her i would think about it but i just cant decide.

The good: I could have fun, i'm no longer chubby so dresses dont look bad on me and i would have the element of surprise since they dont know what i look like in a dress and i'll get to go dress shopping with my bff.

The bad:all the other girls wear make up and they'll look more mature than me and i have a baby face, its a school dance, usually school events are lame. I dont like like anyone in my grade they are generally nice to me but like i dont need to go to impress anyone and overall i just dont feel like going to some dance, i just dont want to dress up for a couple of hours.

I dont want to seem, like i hate everything or that i'm ungrateful i am not but seriously i just dont feel like going and at the same time my friend really is begging me to go so please seriously share some insight and ya help me:) thank you

I moved to a new house recently and I've been staying in the spare room ever since. I saw my new room and it's a pretty big room. I already have a design for it which I got off the website HGTV and I planned out how it's going to be. I need ur suggestions for my room on:

-the pillars I have three in my room like randomly spread what should I do with them one I know I'll put a schedule thing and a notice board with pics what should I do about the other 2

-are there any stores that sell cute apartment stuff like Urban Outfitters.

Thank you!

PS: if u have any suggestions about furniture like desks or chairs, my colour scheme is black and white mainly. Here is a link to my plan : it's pic number 3 press next until the 3rd one http://www.hgtv.com/kids-rooms/8-chic-bedrooms-for...

I am 14 nearly 15 and I'm 103 lbs and I'm 5"3.5 i'm taller than the women on my mum's side I'm even taller than my mum and her aunt, I like wearing baggy clothes around the house for comfort and I am a petite because i'm always moving around and I do sports I dance I run I do horseback riding and I eat normally but my mum made me weigh myself and she told me I'm underweight without any medical checkup now she's making me eat and I'm not the kind of person that gets hungry all the time I crave sweets but I dont usually give in to temptation but I do eat chocolate and crisps and hot dogs everything rlly just not burgers I was a fat child from burgers and I don't want to go back so I'm being healthy what should I do?????

On top of hating the new house it has an annoying oriental theme and I'm staying in the guest room. My bedroom isn't even half ready. I walked into my future room and the furniture they have in store is a green arm chair and dark brown wood for my closet and wall!!! I don't what to do please help me I don't want my room to be ugly

Okay I am 14 nearly 15. This girl who used to be my best friend who isn't my friend anymore is horrible to me, she keeps keeps calling me gay because i dont like anybody or have a boyfriend and she tells everyone I punched her! I couldnt have punched her she is bigger than me, I am not that violent and she tackled me she hit my thigh, kicked my foot and hit my arm (non-contact rugby in Sports class today) My school doesn't have a guidance counselor and I can't call ChildLine, I don't know how to tell my mother we aren't that close and I'm scared she'll interfere and she might want to hear the girls side of the story and if she does the girl will lie for sure and my mother will believe her. I already hated because of her so if I tell the school I'll be even more harassed by the year group. I had another bully but my aunt texted him saying she'll call the school (actually it was me) but i cant do that with that girl because she is much tougher and everyone will hate me.

I dont know if i should tell my mum, if i should how?

thank you all so much

One day my mum was in my room and she told me that if i like someone or someone likes me I should tell her, I don't like anybody and as far as I am aware nobody likes me. Today I am going to the track to jog with my friend she is a little older than me and my mum asked me why I didnt leave the house yet so I told her I'm leaving in half an hour then she tells me no boys she said because she thinks my friend dates but she doesnt (I didn't tell her that) I'm confused! So does she want me to like somebody or does she want to send me to a nunnery??