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Christians that support pro-life what do you offer to a women that wants to abort so that she does not abort?

Is it financial security? Adopting the baby as your own? Plzzz do not say she will go to heaven as that does not help the women in this life. Also do you accept that abortion is necessary at times like with rape or health of the mother being in danger.

Update:

Wants to abort so that she does not abort if you substitute the word abort with any word it makes sense. It makes sense because ppl can change their minds on a certain topic if persuaded. How can you not understand this?

Update 2:

@David will the family pay for the medical costs? Also what if the woman cannot find a family that has no child and cannot have a child of their own. Is abortion justified then? Your idea sounds good but it is also circumstantial and unlikely.

Update 3:

Uggh ok what do you offer a person that wants to leave so they do not leave? The question is what do you offer to someone so they do not carry out an action. A miscarriage is not technically an abortion as a miscarriage is a natural abortion that does not require a medical procedure.

Update 4:

@heterosexual so you do not support adoption from a homosexual couple. The couple can provide a home for the child. So can a single mother or father as they do not need to be married. Your requiremetns are biased and no not all heterosexual couples are loving and caring and a "perfect family." Sure women can feel awful about having an abortion and feel it was a mistake but not all women do. Many women continue to live on their lives and feel an abortion was the right thing to do. This is not really a moral subject as morals are subjective.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    They offer her guilt-tripping, sl*t-shaming and other psychological abuse. They don't offer her financial security or anything else that might actually help her because they are "taxed enough already" and she should "pull herself up by her own bootstraps", instead of being a sl*tty "moocher". If she and any child she has end up on the streets starving and freezing it's her own fault for spreading her legs. The "pro-life" cabal doesn't give a damn for that fetus once it exits the womb.

  • brade
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Of direction, assault and vandalism are improper, however the ladies who are presently now not pregnant may be A.) barren or have wellness issues B.) currently unable or readily now not capable to help a baby or C.) now not wanting to have youngsters. That is why they're not pregnant within the first place! How do you know that no pro-lifestyles ladies have provided to be surrogate mothers for undesirable infants? Any stats on that? The child is first and essential the accountability of individuals who created it. I recognize that some women to find themselves the victims of horrible occasions that resulted in being pregnant and although I do not approve of abortion, i would in no way presume to drive these ladies to endure that baby. They have got an extraordinarily tricky alternative to make. Nonetheless, I don't believe that most abortions in this country are wanted by way of victims of rape or incest. The men and women i've a difficulty with are individuals who were just irresponsible. It's even more irresponsible to expect a professional-life lady to "handle the concern" by becoming a surrogate mom. No, men must now not attempt to persuade the women in their lives to grow to be surrogate mothers. Professional-existence does not mean that women don't have any alternative in the subject of pregnancy and elevating a baby. Really, the satisfactory way to restrict abortion is to be liable within the first situation.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    First I have not been in that position, so I can't speak from personal experience, but do know that from what I have read and seen in the ministries that seek to help those in that position that they do suffer greatly from the guilt if they go through with that procedure. There will always be the 'curiosity' of what would the child have done if they had lived ? What would he/she have liked, loved, want to do, eat, toys, what kind of mate would they have married ? What kind of job would they be best suited for ? These are questions that would come to mind if they think about what might have been if they do that sin. But there is hope through Jesus Christ, who can restore your soul if you will confess that to God. He knows how your heart is, Ps.139 speaks of the baby's developement in the womb, so He knows the creation that He is designing in your body. Do you know that there are adoption agencies that will love to help you and they also have ministries that will help pay for those deliveries as well. That is what God's love is all about ! The dark side is if you choose to deliberately go through with that act because you were raped, or your life is at death's door if the baby is not allowed to be born. Today there is a lot that can be done medically to save the life of the mother and the life of the baby. So those instances of the mother's life being endangered are really not as many,not that they don't happen, just not as many. Seek to know what is best, do you have anyone who would help you to care for the baby ? if not that is what adoption agencies are all about. If you can't afford the delivery, ministries are there to help you. God loves you, and will forgive you, but you must know that is why He died on the cross for your sins, that you can give that sin to HIM, and He will give you new life in your heart in HIM, if you will confess and repent of that desire. The world's reasoning does not help because that scar will be there and yes God can heal that scar but you must trust in HIM that He can do that.

    Source(s): Check into Christian ministries that will help you through that time frame.
  • 8 years ago

    Abort so she does not abort? You mean so that she doesn't miscarry or am I just missing something?

    Anyway...i think you should be able to abort if its because of rape or some other medical reason. I mean...what it your thirteen and get raped? You won't be able to deal with that and it is the same no matter what age you are. Despite all this i still don't think i could kill my baby but there are instances when it is necassary.

    Otherwise they should have kept their pants on if they didn't want a baby.

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  • 8 years ago

    The woman needs to understand that she is carrying a precious little life that will be killed if she goes ahead with the abortion. If she doesn't want to keep the baby after it is born, there are many loving married heterosexual couples who would be delighted to provide a wonderful home.

    You need to understand that abortion under any circumstances is murder. That's what the woman would have to live with: the fact that she murdered her own child. I counseled a woman post abortion, and she was suicidal after she realized the horror of what she had done. It took much counseling and support for her to learn to forgive herself like God had forgiven her and move forward with her life.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Have you ever seen a woman with a level head gagging to get down the clinic, No.

    Have you ever tried to convince a woman to go have an abortion, No.

    Because if you have you wouldn't be asking such a stupid question. Everyone makes mistakes and even the great Doctor Phil agrees that an unloved or unwanted child is better off not being born at all.

    Please don't be so disrespectful to women and what business is it of yours to make cheap jokes.

    Grow up and get in touch with yourself.

    Source(s): By the way in not a masculine Les, but a middle aged man with kids.
  • Cyber
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Personally, I believe the religious right doesn't care about our fetuses, they're only using the abortion issue for some sinister agenda.

    Also, all the presidents are freemasons which allegedly sacrifice babies to an ancient Canaanite deity, so if that's the case, then they're hypocrites.

  • PPP777
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Answer this , is the baby in the womb a human or not , that should answer your question .and remember very few abortions are a result of rape or a threat to the mothers physical life or disablement for that matter .

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    counseling, the option of adoption, the idea that a spirit son or daughter of God has chosen to have life in a vessel or a body that a righteous woman or an adopted family can give.

    check this out! there is a painting of a man in a moon, that actually looks like ufo or space craft. i wanted to know the meaning of this painting, so i prayed and asked about. one night, i was in a dream/vision like mode and these little balls like the size of soft-balls flew in formation around me. as they came closser to me, they made a sound that hurt my ears. in my mind i had the idea that these are the aborted ones! they have no bodies, so they are given craft to fly in. or, if they do have bodies, then need the sphere to survive.

    your guess is as good as mine, if this was a true dream-vision. or if i had the interpretation given to me.

    but i would never have imagined it, if i had not prayed and coincidentally had the dream and the thoughts.

  • 8 years ago

    80 foot (25 meter) dinosaurs (man-eaters) are still alive today. They live under our level by the way. They will use sinkholes and lakes to come out to our level to play a game. Demons ride in UFOs. Don't go into a UFO ship to be healed by demons! Aborted babies go to hell for 33.5 years to grow up there in the dark. Abortion needs to be stopped! New documents lead to hell. Reject the chip, the evil plastic small world grey passport, and the 666 tattoo by lasers from hell! Antichrist is an evil flying pale gay man with red eyes from the tribe of Dan. God is one. Jesus is 100% God and 100% man! Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father only. Christ preached in hell; those who believed, got out of hell. Orthodoxy is the only Biblical faith. http://www.pravoslavie.ru/english/55141.htm http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYZ49eCro2E http://esv.scripturetext.com/revelation/13.htm http://esv.scripturetext.com/revelation/14.htm http://bible.cc/1_john/1-5.htm

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