How long until a couple has sex?

Being a guy doesn't give you the excuse to just date a girl for sex. There is no specific time of waiting, you just do sex when both parties are ready. That's it.

She's not ready? Do not force her - if she's amazing, then great, she's worth waiting for. If you can't wait and your biggest concern is sex, then go find a prosistute for money.

Some people have sex on the first date, others wait until marriage. When you have sex is a matter of when you are ready, however you do not think she has as strong of feelings as you do. Really you fear her thinking you're a pig. You fear rejection.

I'm going to help you out in two ways…

First, if she doesn't have strong feelings make sure you are connecting with her emotionally. Look into both of her eyes when you are sharing your feelings with one another. Try to know her heart in and out as much as you are familiar with all the feelings she makes you feel. What are her hopes, dreams, fears, and concerns? Know these and help her have the feeling of feeling felt. This will help her feel stronger feelings for you.

Secondly, when you're making out with her, escalate slowly. Let kisses go beyond kissing the face. Kiss her neck. Kiss the back of her neck. Touch the bare skin of her back. Lift up her shirt enough that you're stomach to stomach. Once you're stomach to stomach, even fully clothed, this triggers feelings of sex. Think of all of these small steps that I have shared here, because if you do one and she responds positively, you can do the other in this order. If you get any negative feedback, take a step back.

And for a bonus freebie, all the emotional stuff I mentioned counts for my second point as well. Be in tune with her emotions IN and OUT of the bedroom. This will drive her wild.

It's always the small things that count the most. So forget finding a timeline. Just focus on the small steps that you can take which will get you where you want.

I'd say that once a week is too little, if you are married. You need more than this for good satisfaction. But if you are only 16 years old, then you are a little too young to be married. It's better to masturbate than have sex at this age, because it's a lot safer in terms of avoiding STDs and unwanted pregnancies. You are acting as if you are married, when in reality you aren't. Which can lead to some unfortunate consequences for you. You can end up alone, with a child, and no good way to support yourself and your child.

Lol at the 10 minutes answer, and OH LORD to the rest of them! Personally, I am very sexual in nature and would probably give the guy about a month max before deciding to have sex (though it may happen sooner due to my flirtatiousness or the setting of the date) Sex is major for me, and if you can't hold your own in bed or take direction - then you have to go. I refuse to cheat on my partner, and more importantly refuse to cheat over bad sex. So I need to see what your bedroom game is like, and if it's great, well - i'll love you even more ;)

With this being said.. give it time though. I am just speaking from my own point of view. I find it hard to subtract physical pleasure from a emotionally and mentally fulfilling relationship. But.. Ilike I said.. I just like sex ALOT

For me it was within the first week, but then again, I had already been friends with him for 6 years before we started dating.

I know couples that have waited for almost a year, which I find reasonable. It honestly depends on the relationship.

It shouldn't be about "How long you have to wait"... it should be about when both of you are ready.

"How long do I have to wait?"

You're right, you do sound like a pig. You have to wait until she says she's ready. And please don't insult other guys by using the excuse "I'm a guy". I've been with my girlfriend for two years and I've never even brought up sex because she isn't ready. We're waiting until marriage, and I'm absolutely fine with it. It's called having standards.

There is no limit of age in which you shall have sex. If you love this women with passion and are considerate of her actions and feelings. The bang her brains out man! When a man and a women love each other and they know that no known power will bring them apart then it is okay for you two to have sex, but if you only like her for her body stop yourself before you get carried away, women should be respected in full terms.

ASK her! Every couple is different. Some have sex the first time they meet, others wait days/weeks/months/years, or some couple do not have sex at all. The best thing you can do is ask her, as i said. Just have a casual conversation with her, see how she feels.

I'm a girl and I'm 22 -- personally, I wouldn't jump into having sex with a guy unless I felt very strongly for him. Only if I could see myself marrying him would I have sex. I dated my guy for a year until I decided to do it -- and 4 years later we are still happily together! :)

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