Help, guys opinions. Should I give this to him for christmas?

I am in a delema and the only person that can help me understand this. I can't ask him since its about him.

So here is the back story. I know this guy, and I had a crush on him when I was 13 years old. This was in Colombia I lived there for 9 years. I moved back to VA in 2006 and though I would never see him or hear from him. I some how came in contact with him again in the end of 2007. I started to remember why I like him so much and though he didn't like me at all.

Last week I had a long conversation with him, he told me he liked me and I was special to him. He also mentioned, that he did not want to get in a relationship with me because he knew he was a complicated person to date and was not a faithful person. And, did not want to see me suffer over his acciones and perfered to be friends. I explained to him that either way it would be hurtful since I will eventually see him with other girls and that I perfer to try out the relationship and if we did not work, no hard feelings. He said he would think about it.

Now a few week back I asked him what he wanted for Christmas. He is a heavey smoker and wanted me to give him a customized Zippos lighter with a somewhat sexy looking picture of me. Now am confused should I order it for him if he does not want anything else than a friendship? What his motive of having it. He his a player in a sense and am thinking of actually giving it to him to mess up his game at least, I would not go out with a guy that has a customized anything with a picture of another girl. Help me out!!