why husband loves his sister and another woman madly. m in critical situation to take decision,,,, please?

Dear Buddy,

Take him to a Psychiatrist.

Best of Luck

Thanks, Warm Regards & May GOD Bless

G Senthil Iyappan

In the USA, an arranged marriage is something that isn't heard of these days. What is common here in the states is divorce.

He doesn't sound like a very nice man. He should care about your feelings. It doesn't sound like he listens to you and if he is supporting another woman and her family, he isn't being a good husband.

You cannot change a person to be the way you want. Do you want to have his baby? Do you truly love him? Or do you think you have a better chance of getting rid of him and finding someone else?

Personally, if someone treated me the way your husband treats you, I'd divorce him. Life is too short to waste on someone who you're unhappy with.

Why you are tolerating and suffering so much. Time has changed. You have equal right in the house and others and including your husband have no business to ill treat you.

Now ,you straightway ask your husband to let you live in the house with dignity or else divorce.

Don't tolerate the emotional or physical misbehaviors of anybody.

Straightway warn them, that this is your house, and if they want to live , live like civilized humans.

Be brave and fight.

If you feel nothing is changing, go to Police Station, file a case of Family Violence, get a copy of the FIR and then file a case of Divorce in the Court asking Divorce with alimony.

Live life with your head high and with dignity.

I'm not religious, but I do have heavy sociological / anthropological background. If you feel the need to "fear" your God, then it's because you feel guilty for something, or you want to feel victimized. Most folks don't fear their God. They love their God. God is like the ultimate leader. As Machiavelli said, a good leader must be both loved and feared. If he is just loved, then people will still do what they want against his wishes at times. If he is just feared, then they won't love their own lives, only doing what he wants out of fear of ramifications. If they love and fear him, then they will do what he wants out of love and respect first, and out of fear second. Let me try to use a different analogy for God... God, in most peoples' eyes, is like a good parent. A good parent uses 2 parts love and 1 part discipline to ensure people lead a good life. 1 part love is unconditional. God loves you unconditionally, because you are his creation. (Just as a parent loves their child unconditionally). 1 part love is for positive reinforcement. God shows you love to reward your good behavior. This is what most folks call "blessings", "miracles", etc. Parents do the same with them children; give them hugs when they succeed. 1 part discipline is used for negative reinforcement. God punishes people when they've been bad. Parents do the same to children. Now, most people will follow a Godly life simply because they respect and love God due to 1 part unconditional love, and 1 part positive reinforcement. If that doesn't work then they fear the 1 part discipline. However, what's "blessing" and "punishment" from God is subjective. Different religions, and even individuals, may see something as a blessing while others see it as a curse. Everyone can see whatever they want into something. When a mother hugs a child, it's pretty tangible that it's a hug. But, when a person finds $5 on the street is that a blessing? What if it just enables them to do something bad? I think the better way to look at God is that he gives people chances. The $5 is an opportunity. How the person chooses to use that opportunity dictates whether it's a "blessing" or "curse".

I have total pity for you...

Indian marriage!Too much formalities and all

You have to love ur hus more..I know its tough.But u got to try. Make him happy with xxx.

Have concern for his health

Just dont talk much to his sister. Simply do things like a formality.Keep distance.

She may complaint about you to husband. Just tell him, she is misunderstanding.

If your husband is scolding you, while doing xxx,tell him softly, please advice or scold you in bed room.

all the best!

U can reciprocate his action.

Become self reliant. Join a job for your survival.

Ignore him as he is ignoring you.

He is cheating on you.

Give divoce to him and ask the court to get alimony from your husband.

Consult an Advocate immediately on this. Take further action.

Don give up the only way to win ur husband love is, with ur love. show him that u love him a lot. Never fight back him. Even if he fights give him love.

Love will surely change him...

even all hate you,you don't have to give up. try your best to win your husband's heart.for that even change your notion regarding your sister in law and others. only after winning heart of your husband ,you can mold him for better personal life , also you can persuade him for separate living then after. consult good doctor to have a child early if he really wants.

show more love to him, try to cook delicious food for him and change your perception on her for more advice you can call 2348123509098.and pray to God for a lasting peace and joy in your family finaly you need patience in this situation. visit www.paultiandcompany.gnbo.com.ng. for your clothing and phone services.

Just now you can remarry but what is the surety , so try and have patience.