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gf never wants to sleep over?

Hi i was wondering if maybe a woman can explain this for me.

Like i love it when my gf sleeps over; it is very comforting, soothing, and having her wake up next to me is great. However, my gf just never has a vibe to sleep over. I dont ask her to sleep over everyday; usually once a week or something, but I can tell she does not have an urge to.

sometimes, I feel like I am into her way more than she is; such as the example, I love it when she sleeps over, but i can tell she does not. Or she takes extra long to see me when I just rush over to see her. Or I am the one that usually has to tell her to call me rather then her taking the initiative to call at times (goodmornings and goodnights)

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what do you guys think as an opinion?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Sounds like your lady has all the power cards in this relationship. Think very carefully about what you have invested, and how much of your identity is tied up in being her man, vs. what she has invested. If the relationship is effortless for her, all the effort is on you, then she can "cash out" (bail out) at any time with no sense of loss.

  • 8 years ago

    god how old are you 7!?! sleeping over is just weird keep her at her house then just Skype with her and plus you don't have all the stuff she needs like tampons or anything else women use.

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