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So, my middle school crush now thinks I'm attractive?

Weird thing happened today.

My old middle school crush messaged me on facebook, and asked if I wanted to get lunch with him. I did, by the way. We ended up getting along great. We're both into the same sort of things now, and he told me about when he had seen me with one of my previous boyfriends. He said and I quote

"I kind of kicked myself because I realized what I missed out on."

But is he really into me for ME or is it just because i'm pretty now?

Should I continue to hang out with him, and get to know him?

Update:

By the way, we are both about to enter our 20's and out of highschool.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well, obviously part of it is because he thinks you are pretty now. He wouldn't get lunch with you if he thought you were the ugliest thing on the planet. You should continue to get to know him. If you are questioning whether he is really into you or just because you are pretty.. don't take a guess. Just go out with him until you are certain which one it is.

    You'll eventually figure out which one it is. Anyways, go out with him and have fun

  • 8 years ago

    Hey Girl!

    Alot has changed since middle school! Of course you got prettier but its not only the looks, so try not to look at it from that point of view. Both you and the guy are much more mature now and can be ready to start something. This actually recently happened to me, and although i wasn't interested in my middle crush anymore it turned out that he was interested in me because i look more of a lady and much more mature then i was back in 7-8 grade! I think you should continue to hang out with him and see where it goes. Good Luck ! :)

    Source(s): meee!
  • 8 years ago

    Sometimes it takes some time for people to realize how cute someone is and how they have feelings for someone but like you said, u had a boyfriend that's why he probably didn't make a move but looks like he's very generous about it and likes you for who you are. If he's liked you back then and still doea means that you've always been pretty in his mind. So if you like him too just hangout with him and only time can tell the rest

  • 8 years ago

    You should start asking him questions like about why he likes you, and if he starts to hesitate and sound like he doesn't want to answer you or starts to procrastinate and go of topic, then he might not be that much into you for just, we'll you!

  • 8 years ago

    Go for it but keep close boundaries could just be a hit in run or he was horny or wanted a friend with benefits.other then that sounds good.

  • 8 years ago

    It won't hurt to get to know him better. I'm not so sure what he means by saying that, it could go both ways, I think if you get to know him better you'll better understand his motives.

    give him a chance! :)

  • 8 years ago

    He probably likes you and is jealous.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    he's jealous

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