why do divorced women have to go to hell?

The bible is quite clear, it states if a man dumps his wife for a younger prettier model, his ex wife has to go to hell for HIS not being able to keep his pickle in his pocket. So why must a loving god send a dutiful wife to hell and not the man with the roaming pickle. since I am divorced and doomed by GODS orders to rot in hell, I'd like to know why and if not why, why would any of you bow to this maniac who calls himself a "loving" god? Why doesn't the man with the pickle go to hell instead? It really does not get more psychotic than that unless you count God murdering Lotts wife for turning around when she heard a loud explosion behind her which is a reflex action of course and if he is a GOD, he is therefore all knowing. He did not yell at her, he murdered her for turning around and yet HE gave her ears and eyes to begin with (or did he).