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husband says he will die next year?

I am worried a lot due to the fact that husband is fixing his life insurance policies because he says he feels (like a premonition) that he will die this 2013. He is a healthy individual but I do not know why he is thinking this way, can someone maybe with psychology experience help me understand or maybe help my husband not to think this way. Please any positive feedback is really appreciated.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I don't think it's anything to get worried about. Maybe something in his thinking made him realize that he is NOT prepared to die because he hasn't set up his family for that circumstance. If this is the only thing he's doing that's worrying you, then DON'T. I felt the same way quite a few years ago, but here I am, and my poor wife didn't get to collect. And if you're really that worried, then sit down with him and ask him what brought this on. Tell him that you don't WANT him to die next year and that's how it's gonna be. PERIOD. But if he IS acting strangely, then I would call his doctor and tell him what's going on. Maybe he can give you some advice.

  • Rachel
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Whether he is really having a premonition or not, it's always good to have good life insurance. You never know when your number is up even if you're healthy. Accidents and tragedy can strike anyone. Make the most of this year together. If he lives great...you had a good year together. If, God forbid, something should happen to him he has taken care of you with the life insurance, you have built some great memories together to last the rest of your life. Either way you win.

  • 8 years ago

    Is he willing to open up about this with you? Maybe you could go to therapy together. I don't want to judge because I don't know what's going on, but it could be a stress thing up to a mental illness up to a physical illness he's been hiding. The only way to know for sure is to have him communicate with you and if he isn't willing or able to effectively, it might help to have someone else there. Just a suggestion.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Is it possible that he may know something about his health that you don't know? I had MSA for 5 years before I told my family as I didn't want them to spend their days worrying about me. If it makes him feel better to have that safety net I would let him do it. Maybe it is just a feeling he has and after 2013 he will feel better and reduce it.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Maybe he's planning on faking his death and running away? I don't want to alarm you, but I have heard of that happening before. Of course the story I read the dude failed miserably. Anyway, hopefully that's not it but it's the only thing I could think of. Good luck.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Have you asked him why he has this premonition? Maybe he has a health issue he isn't telling you about so as not to worry you?

  • Noccie
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    How old will he be next year? Did someone in his family die at that same age?

  • 8 years ago

    In that case get more life insurance on him, you know you're on this Earth for purpose when your purpose is full fill they die,

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Well not a psychiatrst or anything, but probably should get him to talk more aout it, he may have had a dream or something, also not to scare you but some people do have a sense of these things. Get him talking.

  • 8 years ago

    Ask him to see a shrink or to get tested for hallucinations... Dont let him think you doubt him.

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