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Boyfriend getting over feelings for ex?

I'm currently dating a wonderful guy. We have been dating for 5 months. I have been trying my best to be there for him and let him know that I really care about him. In turn, I think I may be falling for him and my feelings seem to be growing for him. However, the problem is his ex. Before me, he was in a 2-year relationship. He told me that he still has feelings for her and its nearly been a year since their break up but he says he likes me a lot and cares about me. I'm disappointed because I have no feelings for anyone else and I think I may be starting to love him. Do I have the right to feel the way I feel? What should I do?

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  • 8 years ago
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    He needs to be a man and get over her ex. Why are you nursing him to recover this? He'll prove deserving of your affection, only if he lets go of her and starts thinking about you and what to do to make YOU happy, not obsess over some ex.

  • 8 years ago

    In my opinion you shouldn't be too worried about these feelings, i'm sure deep down you're his number one in his heart. Just give him time and keep doing what you're doing and i'm sure he will forget about her, if he doesn't within like 2 months, sit him down and have a serious talk because he should not be in a relationship if he's got feelings for another girl.

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