My husband wants sex even though I'm sick?

I think you are belittling the meaning of marriage. For some reason or the other - well - you say you never had sex. Today when he wants you, you say you donot want to have sex with him. You say you love him and want to take care of him. Marriage is not about caretakers, and housekeepers - Really you should see a therapist to know if anything is wrong - or make up your mind and tell him its better you part and he should find someone who could love him more than you do and care for him too. If you were seeing hot guys dont you think he too could be seeing hot babes?? Do you want to live in the same house as paying guests and lead your own private lives??

Haha! Sounds like my husband. I'm sick today as well but today is not our anniversary. What I got to say to you that is it can be very frustrating when your hubby wants to continually have sex with you but I think when they want to have sex it just means that they want to get close to you. Sure they may be sexually turned on all the time but I would rather have that then a husband that did not want to touch me at all period. So even though it is frustrating thank your blessings! You have a husband who is sexually aroused by you. ;)

Just tell your hubby in a kind way that you love him but your not interested right now because your really sick. If he doesn't understand well then too bad.

I have run into this situation in my life too. A lot of men seem to want sex when the woman is sick.

Your an adult and it's your body... Just tell him no. He'll be pissy but will get over it.

Sounds like you have deeper problems than just not wanting sex. You and your husband should be able to decide you don't want to have sex, for ANY reason, without having to make excuses. He doesn't respect you and he's acting like a child. Maybe you should get counseling before his tantrums get too aggravating.

Take off your clothes and let him go to town. Whatever he does just lay their still and dont make a sound. As soon as he is done, jump up and get in the shower.

This will teach him to know what he is asking for.

Little boys want what they want. They don't care how it effects anyone else.

Men do what needs to be done and take care of their pregnant wives when they are sick.

He isn't interested in a romantic anniversary encounter, he's only interested in his orgasm and avoiding masturbation. He doesn't care about your sickness or your feelings, either. I feel very sorry for you.

Tell him to go sort himself out and grow up!! How sad of him to behave like a pig towards his pregnant wife. if he dont like it show him the door!

Maybe try compensating? As in fellatio and maybe talk dirty to him and hopefully he'll be content with that. Marriage is all about compromise.

Advice? Just say no. There. Oh, and pretend to fall asleep.